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title: "Counselling FAQs — Booking, Costs &amp; Sessions | Relationship Counselling Surrey"
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            "text": "Your first session is an opportunity to meet your therapist and talk about what has brought you to counselling. You will both have the chance to explain your concerns and what you would like to improve in your relationship. Your therapist will ensure both perspectives are heard and guide the conversation in a constructive way."
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            "text": "All of our therapists are fully qualified and experienced in working with couples. You can read each therapist's profile and watch their introduction video to find someone whose approach feels right for you."
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            "text": "Finding the right therapist is important, and not every therapist will be the right fit for every couple. If something does not feel quite right, you are not tied to one counsellor. Please contact us and we will help you explore alternative options."
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            "text": "We do not offer introductory calls with therapists, as discussing personal concerns outside of a scheduled session would fall outside the therapeutic space. To help you choose, each therapist has a detailed profile and introduction video. Sessions are booked one at a time, so there is no requirement to commit to further appointments if you decide the therapist is not the right fit."
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            "text": "Yes. Most couples find online counselling to be just as effective as face-to-face sessions. Some couples prefer meeting their therapist in person, while others find it easier to speak openly from the comfort of their own home. Both options provide a safe and structured space to explore what is happening in your relationship and work towards positive change."
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            "text": "Technical problems are rare, but if they occur your therapist will help you reconnect as quickly as possible. If the connection cannot be restored, your therapist may continue the session by phone or rearrange the appointment if necessary."
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            "text": "Each session lasts a full 60 minutes. Our fee is £80 per couple for a one hour session, and £68 for an individual one hour session, whether you meet your therapist face to face or online. Sessions are booked and paid for one at a time, so there is no requirement to commit to multiple appointments."
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