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She specialises in helping couples improve communication, rebuild trust, and resolve conflict in a supportive, understanding environment. Using an integrative approach that blends evidence-based methods with warmth and empathy, Deborah helps partners explore how past experiences and communication styles influence their relationship today. Her sessions offer a safe space for both individuals to feel heard, respected, and understood — guiding you towards greater connection, emotional balance, and a more fulfilling relationship. Individual Couples Female Walton-on-Thames, KT12 3LT English Individual £68 · Couples £80 / 60 min [Book Appointment](/book/1f440c80-55c9-4294-ae7f-26a2b57947b7)Share Profile View Deborah's Upcoming Availability 26 slots Next available: Tomorrow · 11:15 View Deborah's Upcoming Availability 26 slots Next available: Tomorrow · 11:15 Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Face-to-Face In-person at Walton-on-Thames Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Tomorrow 11:1512:3018:00 Friday 4th September 10:00 Tuesday 8th September 10:0014:00 Wednesday 9th September 15:0016:3017:45 Thursday 10th September 16:0017:15 Monday 14th September 10:0014:0015:1516:30 Tuesday 15th September 10:0013:0014:1515:3016:45 Wednesday 16th September 09:0010:1511:3012:4515:3016:45 In-person at Walton-on-Thames ## About Deborah Deborah Leaver is a qualified relationship and couples counsellor, practising in Walton-on-Thames, Surrey (KT12 3LT), with online sessions also available. Hello, I’m Deborah Leaver, an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist with a CPCAB Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling and extensive experience working with couples and individuals. Whether you’re struggling with conflict, feeling distant, or simply want to strengthen your relationship, I’m here to help. My approach is warm, down-to-earth, and tailored to your individual needs. I work with people from all walks of life, including diverse cultural, religious, LGBTQIA+, and neurodiverse backgrounds. I use an integrative approach that draws on a range of techniques to support each couple’s unique situation. Together, we’ll explore how early experiences and communication patterns may be shaping your relationship today and find practical ways to move forward. I will provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space where both you and your partner can express yourselves and feel heard. While it might feel uncomfortable discussing personal issues with a stranger, my aim is to help you both feel at ease and supported. We’ll look at your emotions, behaviours, and relationship dynamics, and where relevant, explore how past experiences may be affecting your current situation. As a registered member of the BACP, I follow their ethical guidelines and undertake regular supervision and professional development to ensure I provide the best possible service to my clients. View Deborah's Upcoming Availability 26 slots Next available: Tomorrow · 11:15 ## View Deborah's Upcoming Availability Next available: Tomorrow · 11:15 · next 2 weeks Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Face-to-Face In-person at Walton-on-Thames Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Tomorrow 11:1512:3018:00 Friday 4th September 10:00 Tuesday 8th September 10:0014:00 Wednesday 9th September 15:0016:3017:45 Thursday 10th September 16:0017:15 Monday 14th September 10:0014:0015:1516:30 Tuesday 15th September 10:0013:0014:1515:3016:45 Wednesday 16th September 09:0010:1511:3012:4515:3016:45 In-person at Walton-on-Thames ## Meet Deborah ## Background & Experience Before becoming a therapist, I worked as a management consultant, mainly within the legal sector. I have also supported clients through charities, helping those facing bereavement, domestic violence, and substance misuse. I continue to work for one of these charities, as I believe therapy should be accessible to everyone who needs it. Alongside this, I run a busy private practice seeing both individuals and couples, in person and online. I regularly attend workshops and training to keep my practice current and effective. I hold an Enhanced DBS certificate and professional indemnity insurance, so you can feel confident and safe working with me. ## How I Can Help I will help you both communicate more openly and calmly, so you can truly listen and understand each other without blame or conflict. We will work together to rebuild trust and emotional closeness, helping you feel more connected and supported in your relationship. I'll gently guide you in exploring each other's needs, thoughts, and feelings, fostering a deeper understanding of your relational dynamics. We will navigate any difficult life changes, such as loss or family pressures, providing you with care and understanding to strengthen your partnership. I'll support you in making meaningful changes to bring more balance, respect, and fulfilment to your relationship. ## Specialisations Psychosexual Therapy Neurodiversity in Relationships Gender Diversity in Relationships Addiction and Substance Use in Relationships ## Therapy Approaches Gottman Method Couples Therapy Cognitive Behavioural Couples Therapy (CBT for Relationships) ## Problems I Help With Communication problems and not feeling heard Support for LGBTQ+ and queer relationships Differences in values or life goals Repeating unhealthy relationship patterns Conflict and frequent arguments Life transitions and big changes Intimacy and sexual difficulties Trust issues and infidelity Jealousy and insecurity Feeling distant, disconnected, or stuck Deciding whether to stay together or separate Navigating long distance relationships Pre-marital therapy and relationship preparation ## Qualifications - Level 4 Diploma in Counselling ## Professional Memberships - British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) - National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) View Deborah's Upcoming Availability 26 slots Next available: Tomorrow · 11:15 ## View Deborah's Upcoming Availability Next available: Tomorrow · 11:15 · next 2 weeks Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Face-to-Face In-person at Walton-on-Thames Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Tomorrow 11:1512:3018:00 Friday 4th September 10:00 Tuesday 8th September 10:0014:00 Wednesday 9th September 15:0016:3017:45 Thursday 10th September 16:0017:15 Monday 14th September 10:0014:0015:1516:30 Tuesday 15th September 10:0013:0014:1515:3016:45 Wednesday 16th September 09:0010:1511:3012:4515:3016:45 In-person at Walton-on-Thames View Deborah's Upcoming Availability 26 slots Next available: Tomorrow · 11:15 ## View Deborah's Upcoming Availability Next available: Tomorrow · 11:15 · next 2 weeks Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Face-to-Face In-person at Walton-on-Thames Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Tomorrow 11:1512:3018:00 Friday 4th September 10:00 Tuesday 8th September 10:0014:00 Wednesday 9th September 15:0016:3017:45 Thursday 10th September 16:0017:15 Monday 14th September 10:0014:0015:1516:30 Tuesday 15th September 10:0013:0014:1515:3016:45 Wednesday 16th September 09:0010:1511:3012:4515:3016:45 In-person at Walton-on-Thames ## Where Deborah practises In-person relationship counselling in Walton-on-Thames, Surrey (KT12 3LT) — plus online sessions across the UK. Walton-on-Thames Practice KT12 3LT [Relationship counselling in Walton-on-Thames](/couple-counselling/walton-on-thames) ## Ready to start your journey with Deborah? Take the first step — book a confidential session today. [Book a Session with Deborah](/book/1f440c80-55c9-4294-ae7f-26a2b57947b7) ## Client reviews 5.0 Based on verified client reviews Ruth 2 weeks ago “Deborah has been a great support and sound voice for me. I am sure I will be back as needed!” SM 1 month ago “My husband and I came to Deborah as we were experiencing challenges in our marriage. Deborah was easy to talk to, and always had practical suggestions to our emotional struggles. She guided us to remove blame from the equation and focus on respect and understanding even when views were quite different. After 6 months we feel like a completely different relationship, based on trust, respect and a deeper understanding of each other. For that we are incredibly grateful.” [![Relationship Counselling Surrey](/assets/logo-BI6R1LFy.png)](/) Professional relationship counselling services in Surrey. 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