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It was a comfortable space that allowed us to talk openly. 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He works with both couples and individuals, offering a safe space to explore communication breakdowns, emotional distance, sexual problems and conflict. Drawing on Gestalt, Transactional Analysis, and Person-Centred . Andy helps partners understand each other better, rebuild trust, and create healthier, more respectful ways of relating. Clients describe him as warm, grounded, and easy to talk to. Individual Couples Male Guildford, GU2 4JD English Individual £68 · Couples £80 / 60 min [Book Appointment](/book/f11de3bb-7ff3-4e21-9a5c-9036cfb335f0)Share Profile View Andrew's Upcoming Availability 3 slots Next available: Wednesday 9th September · 08:30 View Andrew's Upcoming Availability 3 slots Next available: Wednesday 9th September · 08:30 Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Face-to-Face In-person at Guildford Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Wednesday 9th September 08:3011:30 Thursday 10th September 08:30 In-person at Guildford ## About Andrew Andrew Spencer is a qualified relationship and couples counsellor, practising in Guildford, Surrey (GU2 4JD), with online sessions also available. Hello, I’m Andy Spencer, a qualified Relationship Therapist supporting both couples and individuals. I’m also a Supervisor for other Couple Counsellors and an accredited member of the National Council of Integrative Psychotherapists (NCIP). Relationships can be deeply rewarding but also challenging. Stress, family pressures, or emotional disconnection can make it difficult to communicate or feel close. My role is to help you both understand what’s happening, learn new ways to connect, and move forward with greater clarity and respect. My approach is proactive and supportive. I use a range of tools to help you explore what’s gone wrong, rebuild understanding, or separate more peacefully when needed. I integrate Gestalt, Transactional Analysis, and Person-Centred Counselling within a calm, confidential environment. As an accredited NCIP member, I follow their ethical guidelines and undertake regular supervision and professional development to ensure the highest standard of care. View Andrew's Upcoming Availability 3 slots Next available: Wednesday 9th September · 08:30 ## View Andrew's Upcoming Availability Next available: Wednesday 9th September · 08:30 · next 2 weeks Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Face-to-Face In-person at Guildford Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Wednesday 9th September 08:3011:30 Thursday 10th September 08:30 In-person at Guildford ## Background & Experience I’ve worked with clients experiencing loss, trauma, and anxiety at Sam Beare and Woking Hospices, as well as with Survivors of Bereavement by Suicide (SOBS). I also supported survivors of sexual abuse at RASASC in Guildford and provided therapy for anxiety and depression within the NHS. I continue to train regularly, am DBS checked, and fully insured. I live with my partner and have four grown-up stepchildren. ## How I Can Help I'll help you both acquire practical communication skills, allowing you to articulate your needs and listen to your partner without defensiveness or escalation. We'll work collaboratively to rebuild trust and rekindle emotional intimacy, fostering a deeper sense of connection and security within your partnership and address sexual problems. I'll guide you in exploring the underlying patterns and dynamics impacting your relationship, leading to profound insights and a renewed understanding of one another. We'll navigate significant life transitions and external pressures together, ensuring your relationship remains a source of strength, support, and resilience. I'll support you in cultivating a more fulfilling and respectful partnership, establishing sustainable practices that foster equilibrium and mutual growth. ## Therapy Approaches Sex Therapy for Couples General Couples Counselling Integrative Couples Therapy Solution Focused Couples Therapy Trauma Informed Couples Therapy Humanistic Therapy (Couples) ## Problems I Help With Repeating unhealthy relationship patterns Deciding whether to stay together or separate Communication problems and not feeling heard Conflict and frequent arguments Feeling distant, disconnected, or stuck Relationship Problems Trust issues and infidelity Intimacy and sexual difficulties Jealousy and insecurity Separation and divorce support Life transitions and big changes Differences in values or life goals Navigating long distance relationships ## Qualifications - PGDip in Counselling - PGDip in Relationship Therapy ## Professional Memberships - National Council of Integrative Psychotherapists (NCIP) View Andrew's Upcoming Availability 3 slots Next available: Wednesday 9th September · 08:30 ## View Andrew's Upcoming Availability Next available: Wednesday 9th September · 08:30 · next 2 weeks Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Face-to-Face In-person at Guildford Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Wednesday 9th September 08:3011:30 Thursday 10th September 08:30 In-person at Guildford View Andrew's Upcoming Availability 3 slots Next available: Wednesday 9th September · 08:30 ## View Andrew's Upcoming Availability Next available: Wednesday 9th September · 08:30 · next 2 weeks Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Face-to-Face In-person at Guildford Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Wednesday 9th September 08:3011:30 Thursday 10th September 08:30 In-person at Guildford ## Where Andrew practises In-person relationship counselling in Guildford, Surrey (GU2 4JD) — plus online sessions across the UK. Guildford Practice GU2 4JD [Relationship counselling in Guildford](/couples-therapy/guildford) ## Ready to start your journey with Andrew? Take the first step — book a confidential session today. [Book a Session with Andrew](/book/f11de3bb-7ff3-4e21-9a5c-9036cfb335f0) ## Client reviews 4.8 Based on verified client reviews Mark 2 days ago “Speaking with Andrew is extremely productive, thought provoking and he gave me confidence to be completely open from the start. He immensely helped me think in the round and demonstrated incredible study models that resonated well with me. Andrew is calm, courteous and incredibly understanding. I always looked forward to our meetings and thoroughly recommend him.” Sarah 4 days ago “Very clear about the process. Circled back to be certain he understood what we needed to say. Have us each plenty of time to share our perspectives and helped us deliver the message to each other in a way that reflected our feelings whilst maintaining respectful boundaries.” Chris 5 days ago “Working with Andrew has helped me in dealing with a stressful period both at work and personally. He gave me understanding of my stressors and techniques in how to manage them going forward. I feel I have some tools to recognise what can overwhelm me and ways to manage these. I would recommend Andrew to anyone facing similar challenges and looking for a strategies to feel calmer.” P&A 2 weeks ago “We went to the sessions as a couple and neither of us had any previous experience of counselling. Andrew was supportive and attentive; he encouraged us to talk but also listened and reacted to what we said. It was a comfortable space that allowed us to talk openly. In some ways, the fact that we are still together and in a much better place almost a year later shows that he helped us through our difficult time.” ## Find Relationship Counselling in Surrey Locations - [Relationship Counselling Guildford ](/relationship-counselling-guildford) [![Relationship Counselling Surrey](/assets/logo-BI6R1LFy.png)](/) Professional relationship counselling services in Surrey. 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