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Thank you for all your help in keeping the most precious thing to both of us intact.", "publisher": { "@type": "Organization", "name": "Relationship Counselling Surrey", "@id": "https://relationshipcounsellingsurrey.co.uk/#organization" }, "itemReviewed": { "@id": "https://relationshipcounsellingsurrey.co.uk/therapists/madeleine-kingsley/#person" } }, { "@type": "Review", "@id": "https://relationshipcounsellingsurrey.co.uk/therapists/madeleine-kingsley#review-46837572-8458-44e1-b7e5-f625b2821dd4", "reviewRating": { "@type": "Rating", "ratingValue": 5, "bestRating": 5, "worstRating": 1 }, "author": { "@type": "Person", "name": "David" }, "datePublished": "2026-08-17", "reviewBody": "A huge help and very accommodating with her time. Madeleine was understanding, supportive and a great guide throughout.", "publisher": { "@type": "Organization", "name": "Relationship Counselling Surrey", "@id": "https://relationshipcounsellingsurrey.co.uk/#organization" }, "itemReviewed": { "@id": "https://relationshipcounsellingsurrey.co.uk/therapists/madeleine-kingsley/#person" } }, { "@type": "Review", "@id": "https://relationshipcounsellingsurrey.co.uk/therapists/madeleine-kingsley#review-bb36fe92-819a-431b-9fa1-2a8ad86616fd", "reviewRating": { "@type": "Rating", "ratingValue": 5, "bestRating": 5, "worstRating": 1 }, "author": { "@type": "Person", "name": "Melanie" }, "datePublished": "2026-07-20", "reviewBody": "Brilliant, responsive, flexible and very helpful - thank you!", "publisher": { "@type": "Organization", "name": "Relationship Counselling Surrey", "@id": "https://relationshipcounsellingsurrey.co.uk/#organization" }, "itemReviewed": { "@id": "https://relationshipcounsellingsurrey.co.uk/therapists/madeleine-kingsley/#person" } } ] } ] --- [![Relationship Counselling Surrey](/assets/logo-BI6R1LFy.png)](/) - [Home](/) - [What To Expect](/what-to-expect) - We Can Help With - [Therapists](/therapists) [Locations](/locations)- [Fees](/fees) - [Reviews](/reviews) - [Blog](/blog) - [FAQ](/faq) - [Contact](/contact) [Login](/auth)[Book Your Session](/find-match) 5.0 Rated Highly Qualified & Experienced Therapists Sessions Available Mon–Sun 8am–9pm [hello@relationshipcounsellingsurrey.co.uk ](mailto:hello@relationshipcounsellingsurrey.co.uk)[Call us: 01483 319 966 ](tel:+441483319966)[Book Now](/find-match) [Back to Therapists](/therapists) ![Madeleine Kingsley, counsellor and psychotherapist](https://rxvhnvwmfwrneowddnji.supabase.co/storage/v1/render/image/public/therapist-photos/f6ad2b19-a76e-4fd8-8e47-57d0d1f42762/0ce7a75a-a867-4704-baae-e64041b860bb.jpg?width=600&height=600&resize=cover&quality=75) Online # Madeleine Kingsley Online relationship & couples counsellor — Surrey & UK Madeleine Kingsley is a Relate-trained online couples counsellor with over 30 years’ experience and BACP registration. She offers a safe, non-judgemental space to help couples work through challenges such as conflict, affairs, life transitions, and loss of intimacy. Madeleine supports couples to understand each other’s perspectives, improve communication, and rebuild closeness and desire, helping relationships move forward in a realistic and compassionate way. Individual Couples Female Online English Individual £68 · Couples £80 / 60 min [Book Appointment](/book/f6ad2b19-a76e-4fd8-8e47-57d0d1f42762)Share Profile View Madeleine's Upcoming Availability 59 slots Next available: Today · 12:45 View Madeleine's Upcoming Availability 59 slots Next available: Today · 12:45 Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Today 12:4514:0015:1518:0019:00 Tomorrow 16:00 Monday 7th September 11:1513:0014:3016:0017:3019:0020:15 Tuesday 8th September 11:0012:1516:0018:0019:1520:30 Wednesday 9th September 08:0009:1510:3012:0013:3015:0016:1517:3019:0020:15 Friday 11th September 08:45 Sunday 13th September 18:3020:00 Monday 14th September 08:0019:0020:15 Tuesday 15th September 11:0012:3014:0015:1518:30 Wednesday 16th September 08:0009:3010:4513:0014:4517:0018:1520:00 Thursday 17th September 08:0009:0010:1511:3012:4514:0015:1516:3018:0019:1520:30 ## About Madeleine Madeleine Kingsley is a qualified relationship and couples counsellor, working online with clients across Surrey and the UK. I am passionate about supporting couples through tough times towards a brighter but realistic future. Couples often start out feeling full of love and desire, then find themselves questioning where the 'spark' has gone. My job is to help you restore closeness and remember the strengths that first brought you together, helping you understand that it is often small changes that lift and lighten a partnership. In our sessions, I provide a safe, non-judgmental space where I listen attentively to you both. I won’t make decisions for you or apportion blame; instead, I view relationship therapy as a shared voyage of exploration. We will work together to make sense of the thorny patches you’re experiencing, helping you understand each other’s viewpoints while introducing tools to communicate with honesty and kindness. I also specialise in helping couples navigate the emotional and relational aspects of intimacy. Many people feel awkward talking about sex, but I offer a confidential environment to explore issues such as a drop in desire, reconnecting after children or menopause, and differences in sexual initiation. While I don't offer formal sex therapy for physical dysfunctions, I am here to help you address the 'sex in your head' and the emotional connection that fuels desire. View Madeleine's Upcoming Availability 59 slots Next available: Today · 12:45 ## View Madeleine's Upcoming Availability Next available: Today · 12:45 · next 2 weeks Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Today 12:4514:0015:1518:0019:00 Tomorrow 16:00 Monday 7th September 11:1513:0014:3016:0017:3019:0020:15 Tuesday 8th September 11:0012:1516:0018:0019:1520:30 Wednesday 9th September 08:0009:1510:3012:0013:3015:0016:1517:3019:0020:15 Friday 11th September 08:45 Sunday 13th September 18:3020:00 Monday 14th September 08:0019:0020:15 Tuesday 15th September 11:0012:3014:0015:1518:30 Wednesday 16th September 08:0009:3010:4513:0014:4517:0018:1520:00 Thursday 17th September 08:0009:0010:1511:3012:4514:0015:1516:3018:0019:1520:30 ## Background & Experience I am a 'Relate' qualified couple's counsellor with over 30 years of experience in the field. My professional foundation is built upon a Relate Certificate in Couples Counselling and a Relate Postgraduate Diploma in Family Counselling. I am also a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). My extensive background includes additional training that allows me to work effectively with families, children, and young people. This broader perspective enables me to see the 'bigger picture' of the family dynamics you are part of, which is often essential when addressing the stresses that impact a primary partnership. ## How I Can Help I'll help you break out of repetitive cycles of arguments and restore honest communication. We will explore ways to reconnect and find your 'spark' after major life transitions like parenthood or menopause. I'll support you in processing and moving forward following the pain of an affair. Together, we will work on practical techniques to help you speak to one another with both honesty and kindness. I will help you navigate the emotional side of intimacy and differences in sexual desire. We'll identify the small, manageable changes that can transform the atmosphere of your relationship. ## Specialisations Psychosexual Therapy Addiction and Substance Use in Relationships ## Therapy Approaches Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Gottman Method Couples Therapy General Couples Counselling Integrative Couples Therapy Attachment Based Couples Therapy Psychodynamic Couples Therapy Systemic Couples Therapy Solution Focused Couples Therapy Trauma Informed Couples Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy (Couples) ## Problems I Help With Feeling distant, disconnected, or stuck Communication problems and not feeling heard Conflict and frequent arguments Relationship Problems Trust issues and infidelity Intimacy and sexual difficulties Jealousy and insecurity Repeating unhealthy relationship patterns Deciding whether to stay together or separate Separation and divorce support Navigating long distance relationships Parenting, finances, and family pressures Life transitions and big changes Differences in values or life goals Pre-marital therapy and relationship preparation Support for LGBTQ+ and queer relationships ## Qualifications - PGDip in Relationship Therapy ## Professional Memberships - British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) View Madeleine's Upcoming Availability 59 slots Next available: Today · 12:45 ## View Madeleine's Upcoming Availability Next available: Today · 12:45 · next 2 weeks Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Today 12:4514:0015:1518:0019:00 Tomorrow 16:00 Monday 7th September 11:1513:0014:3016:0017:3019:0020:15 Tuesday 8th September 11:0012:1516:0018:0019:1520:30 Wednesday 9th September 08:0009:1510:3012:0013:3015:0016:1517:3019:0020:15 Friday 11th September 08:45 Sunday 13th September 18:3020:00 Monday 14th September 08:0019:0020:15 Tuesday 15th September 11:0012:3014:0015:1518:30 Wednesday 16th September 08:0009:3010:4513:0014:4517:0018:1520:00 Thursday 17th September 08:0009:0010:1511:3012:4514:0015:1516:3018:0019:1520:30 ## Ready to start your journey with Madeleine? Take the first step — book a confidential session today. [Book a Session with Madeleine](/book/f6ad2b19-a76e-4fd8-8e47-57d0d1f42762) ## Client reviews 5.0 Based on verified client reviews K 5 days ago “Calm, insightful and caring approach. Madeleine enabled my partner and I to explore our relationship in a frank and honest way, without a sense of blame being felt. We were both able to recognise the responsibility we held, as individuals and as a couple, for the problems in our relationship and how we could move forward together, without the past holding us back. Thank you Madeleine, you have supported us to rediscover what makes our relationship worth fighting for.” Joshua 2 weeks ago “Madeline was incredible. I didn't think I needed therapy and was against it at first but Madeline made it so easy that it just felt like a conversation that was needed. Her time with us has strengthened our relationship massively and put us back to where we used to be” Kate 2 weeks ago “Madeleine is simply an angel - one of the kindest people I have ever met in my life. She'll always make you feel heard and cared for. Thank you for all your help in keeping the most precious thing to both of us intact.” David 2 weeks ago “A huge help and very accommodating with her time. Madeleine was understanding, supportive and a great guide throughout.” Melanie 2 months ago “Brilliant, responsive, flexible and very helpful - thank you!” [![Relationship Counselling Surrey](/assets/logo-BI6R1LFy.png)](/) Professional relationship counselling services in Surrey. 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