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She is a BACP-registered therapist with experience supporting clients from diverse and LGBTQIA+ backgrounds, including neurodiverse clients. Jolanta provides a warm, balanced space to help couples improve communication, understand unhelpful patterns, and move forward with greater clarity, whether together or through separation. Individual Couples Female Surbiton, KT6 4QU English, Polish Individual £68 · Couples £80 / 60 min [Book Appointment](/book/bae2369d-c2d3-4916-bb4f-7d9566cdadd3)Share Profile View Jolanta's Upcoming Availability 8 slots Next available: Tuesday 1st September · 15:30 View Jolanta's Upcoming Availability 8 slots Next available: Tuesday 1st September · 15:30 Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Face-to-Face In-person at Surbiton Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Tuesday 1st September 15:30 Wednesday 2nd September 12:0013:3015:00 Thursday 3rd September 11:3013:0016:45 Friday 4th September 19:00 In-person at Surbiton ## About Jolanta Jolanta Lovelock is a qualified relationship and couples counsellor, practising in Surbiton, Surrey (KT6 4QU), with online sessions also available. Hello, I am Jolanta, a fully qualified Integrative Counsellor specialising in relationship therapy. My approach is rooted in the belief that understanding our thoughts, feelings and patterns of behaviour is key to fostering healthier connections. In our sessions, I draw upon a wide range of therapeutic approaches tailored to your specific needs, including elements of CBT, Person-Centred and Psychodynamic therapy. When working with couples, I incorporate techniques from Emotionally Focused Therapy, Attachment Therapy, Imago Relationship Therapy and Solution-Focused Therapy. Whether you are looking to strengthen your bond or are navigating the difficult process of an amicable separation, I aim to provide a safe and non-judgmental space. We will explore your core values, love languages and early attachment experiences to understand how they influence your current relationship dynamics. My goal is to help you move forward positively, whether that involves resolving long-standing conflicts or managing major life transitions such as infertility, illness or bereavement. I work in a relational way, focusing on what is happening in the here and now. I endeavour to demonstrate care, empathy and respect at all times. I am not here to judge or take sides. Instead, I aim to help you gain a deeper understanding of each other’s perspectives. I also offer therapy in both English and Polish, ensuring a comfortable experience for clients from diverse cultural and ethnic backgrounds View Jolanta's Upcoming Availability 8 slots Next available: Tuesday 1st September · 15:30 ## View Jolanta's Upcoming Availability Next available: Tuesday 1st September · 15:30 · next 2 weeks Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Face-to-Face In-person at Surbiton Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Tuesday 1st September 15:30 Wednesday 2nd September 12:0013:3015:00 Thursday 3rd September 11:3013:0016:45 Friday 4th September 19:00 In-person at Surbiton ## Background & Experience I have been interested in the workings of the mind, body, and spirit for as long as I can remember. Originally from Poland but living in the UK for most of my life, I bring a wealth of multicultural experience to my practice. Over a 25-year career, I have worked as a qualified teacher, mentor and coach supporting young people, families, and adults from diverse social, cultural, and religious backgrounds, including the LGBTQIA+ community and neurodivergent individuals. Since qualifying as a therapist, I have gained extensive experience working at the Kingston Women’s Centre, Kingston University, and as a partner counsellor at various private practices. My background in Psychology. Teaching and Special Educational Needs helped me to support clients with ADHD, autism, and learning disabilities effectively. I am a registered member of the BACP and adhere to their strict ethical guidelines, ensuring the highest standard of service through ongoing supervision and professional development. ## How I Can Help I'll help you gain a deeper understanding your own and your partner's feeling, needs, motivation and expectations - fostering empathy and more effective communication. We'll explore how your attachment styles and love languages influence your interactions, enabling you to transform unhelpful patterns into stronger connections. I'll guide you in improving your communication skills, allowing you to navigate disagreements and resolve relationship challenges with greater ease and understanding. We will work together to process the impact of significant life events, life transitions and individual growth , ensuring your relationship can navigate adversity and emerge stronger. I'll support you in exploring whether separation is the right path, helping you navigate this challenging decision with clarity and emotional resilience. ## Specialisations Neurodiversity in Relationships Gender Diversity in Relationships Fertility and Reproductive Challenges ## Therapy Approaches Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Imago Relationship Therapy Integrative Couples Therapy Cognitive Behavioural Couples Therapy (CBT for Relationships) General Couples Counselling Attachment Based Couples Therapy Solution Focused Couples Therapy ## Problems I Help With Communication problems and not feeling heard Support for LGBTQ+ and queer relationships Differences in values or life goals Parenting, finances, and family pressures Repeating unhealthy relationship patterns Separation and divorce support Conflict and frequent arguments Life transitions and big changes Intimacy and sexual difficulties Trust issues and infidelity Jealousy and insecurity Feeling distant, disconnected, or stuck Deciding whether to stay together or separate Navigating long distance relationships Pre-marital therapy and relationship preparation ## Qualifications - PGDip in Psychology - PGCert in Guidance and Counselling Skills - Level 5 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling ## Professional Memberships - British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) View Jolanta's Upcoming Availability 8 slots Next available: Tuesday 1st September · 15:30 ## View Jolanta's Upcoming Availability Next available: Tuesday 1st September · 15:30 · next 2 weeks Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Face-to-Face In-person at Surbiton Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Tuesday 1st September 15:30 Wednesday 2nd September 12:0013:3015:00 Thursday 3rd September 11:3013:0016:45 Friday 4th September 19:00 In-person at Surbiton View Jolanta's Upcoming Availability 8 slots Next available: Tuesday 1st September · 15:30 ## View Jolanta's Upcoming Availability Next available: Tuesday 1st September · 15:30 · next 2 weeks Step 1 — Choose how you would like to meet Required Face-to-Face In-person at Surbiton Online Secure video session Times below update based on your choice. You can change this anytime during checkout. Step 2 — Pick a time Tuesday 1st September 15:30 Wednesday 2nd September 12:0013:3015:00 Thursday 3rd September 11:3013:0016:45 Friday 4th September 19:00 In-person at Surbiton ## Where Jolanta practises In-person relationship counselling in Surbiton, Surrey (KT6 4QU) — plus online sessions across the UK. 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