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Sally Lorinda Strawberry

Couple Counselling Hindhead

Hello, I’m Sally and I’m a fully qualified and experienced counsellor/psychotherapist working with couples and individuals undergoing relationship problems. Relationships have been an integral part of my counselling work, and I have gained a wealth of knowledge in relationship dynamics.

I have a BA (Hons) in Humanistic Counselling and a Certificate in Couples Counselling. I’m also a registered member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling & Psychotherapy) which means I adhere to their Ethical Framework.

I regularly update my training requirements and I’m fully insured and DBS checked.

My experience has led me to have an in depth understanding of what makes a healthy, happy relationship. This includes conflict resolution, effective communication, loss of connection, dealing with illnesses. Along with life stage changes, extended or blended family difficulties, divorce and separation. Other areas I work with include roles, chore division, work/change of profession and neurodiversity.

Couples have seen me for therapy in the past said they found my work highly valuable and insightful. I facilitate positive change with attuned, non-judgemental and compassionate listening. Alongside, providing effective psycho-educational tools for gaining reflective insight into behavioural patterns. My overall aim of is to develop a better understanding of your relationship dynamics. As well as helping you learn how to communicate more effectively, re-connect and develop greater empathy and depth between you.

I also work with individuals experiencing any type of relationship problem, including the effects of relational psychological abuse. I’m highly skilled in identifying this as an issue. This work is solely specific to individuals due to the volatile nature of abuse within relationships.

Qualifications

• BA (Hons – 1st) Humanistic counselling – Chichester University
• Certificate in Couple Counselling: Surrey Counselling Training
• Toxic relationships: Insight and recovery – Resources
• Expressive arts therapy – University of Chichester
• Specialist Humanistic Therapy – Classic Person-Centred/ Experiential – University of Chichester
• Brief therapy, including Motivational Interviewing – University of Chichester
• Understanding and supporting autistic clients -BACP
• Facilitating groups – Resources

Background/experience

My life experience has been varied and highly valuable. Previously, I volunteered for the Samaritans for many years. Along with continuing to work as a music producer, songwriter and performing artist, which provides a base to draw upon my creativity. I have over 30 years’ experience in a challenging expressive arts environment which enhances my practice. In support of my work as a musician, I held many reputable and trusted assistance/support positions before establishing my private practice counselling business.

As well as working in private practice I also counsel at the Fountain Centre within Guildford’s Royal Surrey Hospital. Here, I provide support for cancer patients and their families and specialise in counselling women with Gynaecological cancers for GRACE Charity. My work is diverse in terms of age groups, sexualities, cultural/social backgrounds and professional status’s.

 How I can help you 

• Firstly, I provide a safe, confidential space with non-judgemental support. Hopefully this will enable you to feel confident enough to explore your relationship challenges and any difficult emotions. As a Humanistic Therapist, I firmly believe in promoting autonomy and gaining an understanding of your unique experiences with a caring, compassionate, empathetic and accepting way of being.
• I will provide the foundation on which to build a trusting, equal rapport to explore your relationship. My aim is to facilitate better communication, deeper connections and conflict resolution.
• Establishing a collaborative relationship is key to our work together. This will allow you to think of things you may not have considered before, creating opportunities for personal growth, positive change, and acceptance. I will support you as you regain control over your life and develop coping strategies.
• I draw upon family, cultural and wider world influences to gain insight into your relationship dynamics/patterns.
• I’m aware that it can take courage to take to make the first step towards seeking couple counselling. Therefore, I will ensure that my approach is always supportive, encouraging and deeply empathic.

If you would like to make an appointment to see Sally for Couple Counselling Hindhed then please click here or use the book now button below.

Fiona Sutton

Couple Counselling Farnham

Hello, my name is Fiona Sutton and I am a fully qualified Therapeutic Counsellor experienced in working with couples, individuals, children and young people. I am a member of BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy).

I’m an Integrative Therapist, which means I use a wide range of counselling theories to provide the appropriate support to people in their relationships. I have a particular interest in trauma focused therapy and have been successful in helping people recognise how past traumas, core beliefs and experiences might be impacting their day to day relationships.

Relationships can be one of the most fulfilling and pleasurable areas in our life. Our tendency to develop intimate and intense relationships can bring great happiness. However, occasionally our relationships can become full of tension, resentment, hurt and conflict causing pain and upset to one or both parties. Difficulties in relationships are one of the most common causes of unhappiness and often one of the main reasons that bring people to therapy.

About couple therapy

My aim as a couple counsellor is to help you better understand yourself and each other, in order for you to resolve any issues you are experiencing.  I provide a safe, confidential space where you will have the opportunity to calmly discuss and explore the problems you are facing in ways you find the most helpful.

Every couple’s situation and lived experience is unique, and I will always consider this during our sessions. At times, I will gently encourage you both to take the lead to achieve your relationship goals. If you are unsure of your relationship goals, I will provide the tools and techniques to guide you and help you find clarity.

Couple therapy sessions are intended to help you both communicate more effectively.  Which will hopefully lead to you having a clearer understanding of yourselves and each other. I will support you in understanding how to communicate, including subjective interpretation of each other’s behaviours and language.

I believe that everyone is their own expert and therefore they can trust themselves to find resolution to problems.

Ethical Standards – As a member of the BACP I adhere to their ethical guidelines, ongoing supervision and CPD (Continual Professional Development) to ensure the service I provide the best possible service to my clients.

Qualifications 

• CPCAB (Counselling and Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body) Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling
• Alton Counselling Service Certificate in Couples Counselling
• NCS (National Counselling Service) Level 5 in Children and Young Person’s Counselling
• B.Ed. (Hons) Westminster College, Oxford

Background/experience

Prior to becoming a Couples Counsellor, I worked as a Primary Teacher and particularly enjoyed supporting and teaching the whole child, rather than just a subject. I quickly recognised, in both pupils and staff, if situations were difficult, less learning and quality teaching took place.

I’m passionate about supporting emotionally and psychologically so becoming a counsellor was a natural transition.  I trainined in Farnborough four years ago and have gained vast experience in a wide range of issues . I’m also experienced in working with a diverse range of cultures, ages and sexualities.

My previous work was also with families, often mediating disputes whilst ensuring everyone is heard and valued. I maintain continuous training and development requirements and work within the ethical boundaries of the BACP. I’m fully insured for both public lablity and professional indemnity.

I am married with four older and adult children.

How I can help you

• I recognise that taking the first step into seeking help with your relationship might feel a huge step. However, please rest assured. Couples I have seen in the past tell me that my couple counselling sessions are warm, calm and supportive.  I am certainly not there to judge who is right or wrong in any given situation.
• I will help you understand yourself and each other better. Therefore, I will equip you with the tools to experience improved communication.
• My aim to help you have a fuller understanding of each other by enabling you both to really listen, hear and try to understand each other’s perspective and point of view.
• Together, we will work to develop skills to deal with differences in a structured, effective and calm way. Which subsequently serves to deflate any potential conflict within conversation.
• Our sessions are always in a safe, comfortable and non-judgemental environment. You will both be able to express your thoughts, feelings and vulnerabilities and I will ensure you feel heard and respected at all times.

Types of therapy offered 

• Couples Therapy
• Marriage Counselling
• Relationship Counselling
• Depression Counselling
• Anxiety Counselling
• Integrative Therapy
• Bereavement Counselling
• Family Therapy
• Trauma Therapy
• Child and Young Person Therapy

If you would like to make an appointment to see Fiona for couple counselling Farnham. Please use this link to book now 

Julia Fox

Relationship Counselling Epsom

Hello, my name is Julia Fox and I am a fully qualified Person-Centred Therapist experienced in working with couples and individuals. I’m a Registered Member of BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy).

Being a Person-Centred counsellor means I will tailor our sessions around the issues you bring, rather than me setting the agenda. At the start of our sessions, I will ask you what you hope to achieve through couples counselling. You may be looking for help in making your relationship work better, or perhaps help in separating more amicably. Maybe you don’t know which direction you would like the relationship to take at this moment in time. That’s okay, I will help you find the clarity you need.

My role as a couples therapist is to help you both communicate more effectively. It’s not about me offering advice. It’s more about me being a mediator and joining you in exploring the best way forward for you as a couple.

I provide a safe, confidential space, and an informal approach. I understand that taking the step to seek couples counselling can be difficult. However, it means you are investing time and energy into improving your relationship, which is a massively positive step.

About relationships

When things are emotionally charged it can be difficult to talk about the things that concern you in your relationship without it turning into an argument. This is where relationship therapy can help. As a couple’s counsellor, and someone outside of your situation, I am able to see things more objectively because I’m unbiased and not emotionally involved.  I will listen to your individual perspectives on the issues you are experiencing and gently encourage you to try to see things from the other’s point of view.’

Communication between two people is key to a healthy relationship. The therapy won’t be about who is right or wrong. It will be about developing a deeper understanding of the other’s thoughts, feelings and behaviours. I certainly won’t take sides or judge you.

The way you relate to each other may be affected by past experiences such as repeating family patterns of behaviour and communication that are in your subconscious, so you are unaware of them. I will support you both to explore what’s really going on and what’s getting in the way of you communicating more effectively. Then you will hopefully be able to find a way forward in whichever way you choose.

As an experienced bereavement counsellor, I have supported couples where one or both partners have suffered a loss. It’s a difficult time, and one partner may feel that they are not being supported by the other. People often grieve in different ways and this can drive a wedge between them, or breed resentment. Bereavement, or any type of loss, can bring up difficult, conflicting feelings, such as despair, guilt and anger. I will support you both to find a voice in a safe way and offer you tools for compassionate self-care.

I am DBS checked and fully insured.

Qualifications

• Level 4 Diploma in Attachment-Based Counselling (Wimbledon Guild)
• Level 3 Combined Certificate in Counselling Theory and Skills (AEB)
• Continuing Professional Development (CPD) training in:  Relationship Counselling, Bereavement Counselling, Baby Loss, and Trauma Awareness
• Certificate in Periodical Journalism (NCTJ)

Background/experience

Prior to qualifying as a therapist over four years ago, I worked on charity helplines, and then as a support worker for the British Red Cross at St Thomas’s Hospital, and several London carers centres. In my spare time, I volunteered as a counsellor and loved the work. During the pandemic, I volunteered as a counsellor at Kingston Bereavement Service, and later worked for Paul’s Cancer Support Service in Battersea, London.

All these roles have given me invaluable experience that I bring to my counselling work.

I am married, with two adult children.

How I can help you

• Couples I have counselled previously have said they find me warm, friendly and easy to talk to.
• I will never take sides or judge you. Instead I will always ensure you feel heard and respected.
• The couples therapy I offer is in a safe, calm and confidential space. A space where you will be given the opportunity to express your needs, wants and vulnerabilities.
• I’ll help you to communicate more effectively. This will be achieved by me supporting you to really listen to each other – not just to the words, but to how they’re said, and the meaning behind them.
• Let’s go back to when you first met. How did you feel? What was it that made you want to spend your lives together? I’ll help you to reconnect with those feelings, and then explore the changes in your lives, how your needs may be different now, and how you can address any built-up resentment or other issues between you without losing sight of where it all began.

Ethical Standards – As a member of BACP I adhere to their ethical guidelines, ongoing supervision and CPD (Continuing Professional Development) to ensure the service I provide to my clients is the best possible.

Types of therapy offered

• Couples therapy
• Person-centred Counselling
• Marriage Counselling
• Relationship Counselling
• Bereavement counselling
• Counselling for carers

If you would like to make an appointment with Julia for Relationship Counselling Epsom. Please use this link to book

Jessica Grante

Couple Therapy Tadworth (Kingswood)

Hello! My name is Jessica and I’m a fully qualified and experienced individual and couple counsellor.  I am a registered member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy). So therefore, uphold their ethical guidelines, maintaining ongoing supervision and CPD (Continual Professional Development). This ensures I consistently provide my clients with a high-quality service.

My main area of expertise is relational therapy. Which means, I look holistically at the relationship with ‘self’ such as role/identity, attachment style, self-esteem and so on. Alongside the systemic relationship with significant others, including both partners; parents; children and even relationships at work.

Through me providing a safe, confidential space and non-judgmental space, I will help you find ways of resolving any current conflict along with any historic issues within your relationship. I will endeavour to help you feel relaxed enough to explore the problems you are facing that is productive and effective for you both.

I understand that there is no such thing as a ‘one size fits all approach’ which can be formulaically applied to remedy every couple’s unique situation. Therefore, I pride myself on being a truly reflective practitioner, enabling you the autonomy over the goals, pace, possible tasks and interventions. I will invite you to take the lead in order to achieve the goals/aims you have set yourselves. Of course, I will be there to safely guide you, drawing upon my expertise and experience to gentle challenge and direct you where appropriate.

Where there may be impasse (brick-wall) or uncertainty as to which is the optimal direction for all, I will help you find clarity by providing a variety of tools and techniques to aide you both in getting there safely.

My approach to couple therapy

The cornerstone of couple’s therapy is to help you communicate more effectively. So therefore, I will help you actively listen to each other so you feel truly heard by the other. Together, we will explore your individual needs along with helping you express your needs within the relationship.  and express your needs, so as to improve the chances of them being successfully met, imparting a sense of self value and fulfilment.

Couples work inevitably leads to the individuals incidentally having a better understanding of themselves, as well as of each other. I will support you to be able to better understand how effective communication, including conflict resolution, can be relayed and how it might land with the recipient. Studies show that formative life experiences can often be the cause of miscommunication in a relationship, e.g. illness or bereavement in childhood, alongside the subjective interpretation of each other’s language or behaviours. Are you even consciously aware what you and your partner’s ‘love language(s)’ are?  The gradual exploration of these areas can lead to a greater understanding, which in turn, will reduce any rumination; hurt, resentment; resignation or, indeed, anger that may have latently been brewing. Let me ride that explosion with you both!

My methodology is Integrative following the Petrushka Clarkson relational model theory and I may draw down on multiple theories at any one time, for example person-centred; psychodynamic; transactional etc. I am insured and always uphold my governing body’s BACP ethical guidelines, maintain ongoing supervision and CPD (Continual Professional Development) to ensure the service I provide to my clients is consistently of the highest quality.

Qualifications

• Counselling and Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body Therapeutic Counselling Level 4 Diploma 2023
• Level 2 Understanding Adverse Childhood Experiences, Learning Curve 2023
• Level 2 Mental Health First Aid, Learning Curve Group 2023
• NCFE Level 3 Foundation Certificate in Counselling (Kingston College 2021) Level 3 2020
• Ascentis Cruse Bereavement Volunteer 2018; additionally, Child/Young Adult counselling 2021
• First class BA (Hons) Psychology with European Study (German), Exeter University 1999

Background/experience

Prior to qualifying as a Counsellor, I worked as a teacher within both state and private schools. It was here, that I realised, how I particularly enjoyed the psychological aspects of teaching, seeking out the holistic picture of my students and their families. Therefore, making the transition to becoming a Therapist was a natural step.

Six years ago, I trained as a Bereavement Counsellor with ‘Cruse Bereavement Care’. This enabled me exposure to a wide range of issues and a diverse range of cultures, ages, sexuality and relationship situations.  I’ve also volunteered as a pro-bono counsellor at Sutton Women’s Centre, which is a hub for survivors of domestic abuse.

I’m DBS checked fully insured and uphold my continuous personal development training requirements to ensure I provide the best possible service to my clients.

How I can help you

• Previous Clients will attest that I’m warm, approachable and easy to open up to. Having had my own personal therapy, I never underestimate that some people might find it difficult taking the first step in seeking help with their relationship. However, please rest assured, my couple counselling sessions are conducted in a calm and supportive way. My role is to clear a path for you to independently move forwards in whichever way you choose and I will equip you with the tools and skills that will last beyond our sessions together.
• I will help you improve the communication between you, in order to have a greater understanding of yourselves and each other as well as the evolving dynamic between you.
• My aim is to help you to really listen, hear and try to understand each other’s perspectives. This will not only afford you a deeper understanding of your partners thoughts. feelings and behaviours, but also your own.
• We will work together but you will have agency throughout the whole process. I will help you develop the skills required, so you realise that challenging conversations don’t have to end in conflict. Instead, that can be dealt in a calm, effective and safe manner.
• Our sessions together will always be in safe, comfortable, private and non-judgemental space. I will gently encourage you to express your thoughts, feelings and vulnerabilities. Whilst ensuring you both feel heard, valued, respected and supported at all times.

Types of therapy offered

• Integrative Therapy (person-centre; psychodynamic; attachment; transactional)
• Couples Therapy/ Relationship Counselling (self and others)
• Marriage/Civil Partnership/Commitment Counselling (gay/straight/bi/pan/polyamorous etc)
• Attachment; commitment and jealousy issues
• Depression, Anxiety, Low self-esteem/energy Counselling (e.g. body image & ‘imposter syndrome’)
• Grief & loss Counselling
• Family dynamic Therapy (roles of partner; parent; step-parent; child; carer etc)
• Stress/burnout/PTSD/trauma issues
• Anger and conflict Management Therapy
• Young Person Therapy 1:1
• Substance abuse and compulsive behaviours; including eating disorder/body dysmorphia & identity)

I very much look forward inviting you to my relaxing therapy studio in the heart of Kingswood Village.

If you would like to make an appointment to see Jessica for couple therapy Tadworth. Please use this link to book

Sian Jones

Online Marriage Counselling

Hello, my name is Sian Jones, and I’m a highly experienced Relationship Counsellor and founder of ‘Relationship Counselling Surrey’. I have a Psychology (BSC) hons and a proven track record of successfully helping tens of hundreds of couples achieve their goals. In addition to this, I hold diplomas in both ‘Psychotherapy’ and ‘Cognitive Behavioural Therapy’ (CBT), which assist me in addressing negative thought patterns when working with couples.

It was over 15 years ago, that I embarked on my career in relationship counselling, by establishing our parent company ‘Relationship Counselling Kent’. This thriving couple counselling business, prompted me to expand the availability of relationship counselling to couples to another county. Resulting in the creation of the now ‘Relationship Counselling Surrey’.

When relationships face difficulties, emotions run high, making it challenging to see beyond the immediate issues. Consequently, identifying individual contributions to the problems becomes difficult, often leading to a tendency to blame one’s partner. I take a logical, step-by-step approach to couple therapy. By asking relevant questions, I will encourage you both to work through the challenges together. This allows you to openly express what is not working and why, while affording your partner the opportunity to genuinely listen and understand your perspective.

The goal  is not necessarily to agree or even like each other’s viewpoints but to reach an understanding. In my experience, by achieving such understanding goes a long way in removing any hurt, resentment or anger that might have built up over time. If you would like to book to see me for online relationship therapy.

Qualifications

BSC (Hons) Psychology
Certificate in Couple and Relationship Therapy
Diploma in Psychotherapy
PGDip in ‘Cognitive Behavioural Therapy’ (CBT/REBT)

Background/experience

Outside of my therapeutic experience, my background is within the corporate world of ‘Coca-Cola Enterprises Ltd’ where I worked for many years in a variety of management roles. This might appear far removed from what I do now. However, I firmly believe the training, structure and discipline I gained during this time has contributed greatly in my becoming a successful Relationship Therapist. I also feel that my exposure in this type of environment has enabled me to view a ‘wider’ world and not just that of a therapy room. I took the decision to change direction and pursue a career in counselling. Therefore, over a 10-year period, whilst working full time, I undertook a degree in Psychology in order to train to become a psychotherapist, couple counsellor and a CBT Therapist.

How I can help you

• I understand that it might feel quite daunting taking the first step into couples’ therapy. However, I have helped tens of hundreds of couples achieve their goals and most tell me they wish they had sought couple therapy months, if not years before.
• Couples frequently praise my exceptional ability to quickly create a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere. I understand that when individuals feel at ease, they find it easier to open up and communicate effectively.
• We will work together for your specific goal. Whether you would like help to make your relationship work better than it currently is. Or, if you would like help in separating more amicably.
• I will not sit there silently waiting for you to speak. Instead, I will take an active part in the conversation and in the process of recovery and change.
• My work encompasses diverse backgrounds, cultures, same-gender relationships, families and friendships. I provide a non-judgemental, secure and confidential environment where we can navigate your relationship challenges together.

If you would like to book an online relationship counselling with me then please use the book now button below.

Katrina Voysey

Couple Counselling Coulsdon

Hello, my name is Katrina and ‘m a fully qualified Psychotherapist and Couples Counsellor based at Relationship Counselling Coulsdon. I have over 30 years of experience and I’m a registered member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy). I’m dedicated to helping couples build stronger, healthier relationships.

I provide a warm, welcoming, and safe space where you can openly express, explore, and understand whatever is troubling you. Together, we will work towards fostering a better relationship with yourself and your partner.

The love and companionship of a partner can bring out the best in us, offering a nurturing, supportive, and enlivening connection. However, relationships can sometimes face challenges such as arguments, affairs, mistrust, growing apart, control issues, boredom, sexual concerns, and external pressures. Big decisions, like whether and when to have a child, can also create stress.

My approach to couple therapy

During our sessions, we will objectively examine the dynamics between you, ensuring both of you feel heard and respected. I will guide you in discovering and experimenting with better ways to communicate your innermost thoughts and feelings, helping you grow in ways you might not have imagined.

We will explore how you express love and care for each other and how these gestures are received. I will support you in creating the conditions for intimacy and passion to flourish once again. It’s essential to feel like a team in your relationship rather than tackling issues alone. So I will help you build the awareness and skills to achieve that unity.

If an affair or betrayal has occurred, I provide a neutral, compassionate space where you can discuss what happened. This will enable you to process your emotions and come to a clearer understanding of your relationship’s current state and future possibilities. Whether you decide to stay together or part ways, I am here to support your journey.

Good relationships require attention and time, which is often freely given during the “falling-in-love” phase. Couples counselling can help you rediscover the motivation to invest that loving attention and time back into your relationship. Therefore, allowing it to thrive and flourish long after our sessions have ended.

I look forward to supporting you on your path to a more fulfilling and loving relationship.

Background/experience

I have always been deeply passionate about making connections and understanding the intricacies of human behavior. My journey into this field began with a career in marketing and consumer insight, where I delved into the fascinating dynamics of the relationships people form with brands. Over the years, I managed, designed, and interpreted research, leading a team dedicated to uncovering these insights. This experience honed my skills in understanding what drives people and how they relate to the world around them.

After a period of full-time work in this sector, I transitioned to freelancing as a market research consultant. During this time, I pursued my love for creative expression through writing fiction and poetry. This phase of my life opened my eyes to the profound intersections between creativity, self-knowledge, and personal growth. I immersed myself in various creative forms such as writing, dance, movement, music, voice, drama, imagination, and art.

My own personal journey in therapy began around this time, sparking a deep interest in therapeutic practices. I initially trained in using the arts as a therapeutic tool and later pursued training in relational and embodied psychotherapy. This comprehensive training allowed me to support individuals in a more holistic and integrated manner.

With a solid foundation in individual therapy, I expanded my practice to include working with couples and adults in various relationships. I have also been dedicated to sharing my knowledge and skills through workshops and further training. My work has reached diverse groups, including the general public, young homeless people, and fellow counselors seeking professional development.

In my therapeutic practice, I draw upon my extensive background in research, creativity, and personal growth to foster a supportive and transformative environment for my clients. Whether through individual sessions or group workshops, I am committed to facilitating meaningful connections and personal development for all those I work with.

How I can help you

• I will assist you in uncovering your desires, motivations and worth by helping you to understand and embrace your true self. Supporting you both to think and act relationally to help you cultivate a healthier relationship.
• I’ll assist you in navigating any challenging areas of your relationship. As a result, enhancing your sense of security and problem-solving abilities.  By identifying and changing any unhelpful behaviours, which are negatively impacting your relationship, will foster a more meaningful connection.
• Together, we will work on building your capability for clarity. Along with developing calmness, connection, courage, confidence and compassionate acceptance. Therefore, empowering you to face relationship and life’s challenges with resilience.
• My aim is to guide you both in aligning your life with your core values. Which means aiming to move you from merely surviving to truly thriving in your personal and relational life.

My goal is to provide a supportive and transformative therapeutic experience that promotes lasting personal growth and fulfilling relationships.

If you would like to make an appointemnt with Katrina for couple counselling Coulsdon. Please click book now 

Janine Knight

Online Couples Counselling

Hello and welcome, my name is Janine Knight and I am a fully qualified and experienced Relationship Counsellor with working with couples and individuals online. My training was through Relate and I have a CPCAB (Counselling and Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body)  Level 5 Post Graduate Diploma in Relationship Counselling and I’m a registered member of BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy).

I specialise in relationship therapy and all of my training was based around this. This means that I am trained to work with two people at the same time and maintain a relationship focus. I have helped hundreds of couples over the years, finding ways of resolving the issues within their relationships. I provide a safe, confidential space and will endeavour to help you both feel relaxed enough to explore the problems you are facing. My approach is caring and empathetic and in a structured way we will examine the dynamics that you both bring to the relationship.

I approach each couple as unique and offer you both equal time to lead the discussions and explore your personal goals from the therapy. I will not be there to judge you but rather to facilitate a deeper understanding of each other’s interpretations and individual experience of the relationship. If you are unsure as to which direction you would like the relationship to take, I will help you find clarity by providing a variety of tools and techniques to help you get there.

My approach to couple counselling

The main aim of couple therapy sessions is to help you both communicate more effectively. This will hopefully lead to you having a better understanding of yourselves and each other. We will aim to reduce resentments, hurt and anger, which may have built up over time and lead to a real sense of disconnect.

I practice Integrative Therapy which means I take aspects from several theoretical approaches (Systemic, Psychodynamic, Humanistic and CBT) and I work with an Emotionally Focused style of therapy.

Qualifications

• CPCAB (Counselling and Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body) Level 5 Post Graduate Diploma in Relationship Counselling
• CPCAB (Counselling and Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body) Level 4 Diploma in Relationship Counselling
• Foundation Certificate in Psychodynamic Counselling (The Counselling Centre – Tunbridge Wells) Level 3
• Mediation Skills Certificates (Maidstone Mediation Centre – voluntary work)
• Counselling Skills for non -counsellors – Relate Level 3
• Higher Diploma in Midwifery Practice (King’s University London)
• BSc (hons) Sociology degree (Sussex University & North London University)

Ethical Standards – As a member of BACP I adhere to their ethical guidelines, supervision and CPD (Continual Professional Development) requirements to ensure that the service I provide to my clients is professional and consistent with best practice. I am fully insured and am DBS checked.

Background/experience

Prior to becoming a Couples Counsellor, I was a Registered Midwife working within the NHS. I particularly enjoyed the psychological aspects of care and making the transition to becoming a counsellor was a natural evolution. My midwifery experience equipped me with many useful skills I bring as a counsellor.  I trained with Relate six years ago and have gained experience in a huge range of issues, working with a diverse range of cultures, ages and sexualities.  My previous work was also in a voluntary capacity as a trained Mediator working with neighbourhood and family disputes

I am married with four, now adult, children.

How I can help you

• Couples I have seen previously tell me that I am warm and easy to talk to. I’m also fully aware that some people find it difficult to take the first step in seeking help with their relationship. However, rest assured, my couple counselling sessions are conducted in a calm and supportive way.
• I will help you improve your communication in order to have a greater understanding of yourselves and each other
• My aim is to help you both to really listen, hear and try to understand each other’s perspectives.
• We will work together to help you develop the skills so that conversation does not have to lead to conflict. I will provide you with the tools to help you deal with differences in a structured, effective and safe manner.
• Our sessions together will always be in safe, comfortable and non-judgemental environment. I provide the space for you to express your thoughts, feelings and vulnerabilities and I will ensure you both feel heard and respected at all times.

Type of Therapy offered

• Online Couples Counselling
• Online Marriage Counselling
• OnlineLGBTQ+ Couple Counselling
• Online Relationship Counselling
• Online Individual Therapy

If you would like to make an appointment to see Janine for Online Couples Counselling. The please use This Link or the ‘Book Now’ button below

Diana Brotherton

Couple Counselling Farnham

Hello, my name is Diana Brotherton and I’m a fully qulaified and experienced Relationship Therapist for couples and individuals. I’m also a supervisor for other couple counsellors and an accredited member of the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP).

I offer a  a number of different types of therapy, including DIT (Dynamic Interpersonal Therapy), which is a program for young adults experiencing difficulties in forming/keeping nurturing relationships with others.

Sometimes, in long term romantic relationships, the ‘raw’ and exciting love you experienced in the beginning, can shift from its original form. The shapes that love takes are intricate, delicate and unique. That’s because relationships have complex structures, much like ice crystals forming in snow, they are fuelled by our own (and the other’s) feelings, imagination and hopes.

Perhaps you are facing an impasse when trying to navigate through relationships, caught in a web of inter-relationships with others. For example, you might feel trapped in your own personal journey by others’ hopes or aspirations. Or maybe you feel in ‘competition’ within family or friendship groups, where you try to ‘fit in’  according to prescribed rules or norms. Or perhaps internal factors such as illness or psychological trauma is putting pressure on your relationship leading to emotional dysregulation.

One of my personal interests is looking at how wellbeing affects the quality of relationships with others. For example, achieving emotional regulation through making small, but meaningful changes in our lifestyles, can lead to better weellbeing. This has a positive knock-on effect on our relationships with others.

My approach to couple therapy

I provide a safe, non-judgmental space, so you will feel comfortable enough to explore your inner voices. Which will hopefully lead to you both feeling heard and understaood, perhaps re-discovering your co-aspirations.

I iwll help you explore your relationship challenges through deep reflection and insightfulness, which will hopefully to both you and your partner, leading a happeir more fulfillling life

My approach to couple therapy is warm engaging and proactive. Which means I won’t just sit their nodding, Instead I will take an active role by using a variety of tools, where appropriate, to help you  achieve the goal you have set yourself

I work in an integrative way, which means  and my practice is also influenced by humanistic/existential thinking, psychoanalytic concepts and continental philosophy.

Ethical Standards

As an accredited member of the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP) I adhere to their ethical guidelines and have ongoing supervision and CPD (Continual Professional Development). This ensures the service I provide to my clients the best possible.

Qualifications

• Masters in Counselling and Psychotherapy (University of Roehampton)
• Bsc (hons) Psychology – The Open University
• DIT practitioner – Anna Freud Institute London
• Postgraduate diploma in clinical Supervision
• Certificate in couples therapy (Relate)

 Background/experience

I have many years of experience working with couples in my private practice both face to face or online.

In addition to private practice, I worked in the NHS since 2012, providing psychological treatments to people presenting with anxiety and depression, or with difficulties in relationships.

I also work with charities and other organizations delivering supervision or tailored programs to support the valuable work of their employees. An example is my work as supervisor with bereavement counsellors working at Cruse.

I’m committed to ongoing professional development and attend workshop and training regularly. I am DBS checked and fully insured.

I live with my partner and we have five grown up children.

 How I can help you

• I offer a thoughtful and mature, thinking out-of-the-box style approach to love. Love could be also seen as a skill to learn, to grow and to nurture.
• Couples I ‘ve seen prviously todl me I’m approachable, a fine-tuned listener and original in my approach to relationship counselling
• I provide a safe, non-judgemental and confidential space where you can talk openly about the challenges you are experiencing in your relationship. We will form a team where we all contribute creatively to discover fresh angles/views of the problems you are facing.
• My aim is to help you to reach a deeper insight into any blockages in communication which might be contributing to your problems. This will hopefully enable a greater understanding of yourselves and one another.
• I will explain the process and tools available to help you during therapy, and you can choose which ones you think work best for you.

 Types of therapy offered

• Couples Therapy
• Marriage Counseling
• Relationship Counselling
• Dating counselling
• Depression and anxiety
• Bereavement Counselling
• Counselling support for couples going through lifestyle changes
• Counselling for carers of loved ones with long term illnesses
• Anger Management Therapy
• Therapy for trauma
• Stress reduction therapy

If you would like to make an appointment to see Diana for Couple Counselling Farnham. Please click here or press the ‘book now’ button below

Andrew Spencer

Marriage Counselling Guildford

Hello, my name is Andy Spencer and I’m a fully qualified and experienced Relationship Therapist for couples and indviduals. I’m also a Supervisor for other Couple Counsellors and an accredited member of the ‘National Council of Integrative Psychotherapists’ (NCIP).

Many of us choose to share the whole, or a significant part of our lives, with another person. Therefore, in order to find happiness and fulfilment, it’s  important to foster healthy relationships. In my view, a healthy relationship is where both parties are open, honest and feel safe enough to share their authentic needs with one another. However, this sadly isn’t always the case. Sometimes we find it difficult to speak to our partner, or the process gets interrupted and our relationship becomes turbulent, painful and an uphill struggle.

Sometimes external factors put pressure on a relationship. Problems with money, family or children, chronic illness or long working hours can all have a negative impact on a relationship. This, alongside not necessarily understanding each other’s relational needs fully, or how to meet them, can make matters worse. In addition to this, ineffective communication and/or dealing with differences in a defensive or hurtful manner can be a contributing factor.

My approach to couple therapy

I provide a safe, supportive and confidential space for our relationship counselling sessions. This will hopefully enable you to feel comfortable enought to open up and talk through and address your concerns, along with  what you hope to achieve from our sessions. My approach to couple therapy is proactive. Which means I will support you by using a variety of tools (if appropriate) to help enhance your own problem-solving skills. Through doing this, you will be able explore what went wrong between you and the role you both played in the relationship reaching this point. Together, we will help you find a way through, in whichever way you choose.

Sometimes couples decide that the best option for them is to end the relationship. Therefore, I can support one or both of you through this difficult process, so are are able to separate less painfully, especially if children are involved.

I offfer Gestalt, Transactional Analysis and Person Centred Counselling in my practice.

Ethical Standards

As an accredited member of the National Council of Integrative Psychotherapists (NCIP). I adhere to their ethical guidelines and have ongoing supervision and CPD (Continual Professional Development). This ensures the service I provide to my clients the best possible.

Qualifications

• Advanced Diploma in Humanistic Counselling (Guildford College);
• Certificate for Counselling and Psychotherapy Education (CCPE);
• Diploma in Practical skills for Eating Disorders (NCFED);
• Diploma for Eating Disorders and Obesity (NCFED);
• Certificate in Couples Counseling (Heartsworks);
• Certificate in Working with Trauma (The Link Centre); and
• Diploma in Clinical Supervision (The Awareness Centre).

Background/experience

I have experience in working with bereavement and life limiting illness at the ‘Sam Beare and Woking Hospices’. I still provide therapy to members of “Survivors of Bereavement by Suicide” (SOBS). This is for issues such as loss, anxiety and depression.

I’ve also worked with male and female survivors of rape and sexual abuse at Rape and Sexual Abuse Support Centre (RASASC) in Guildford.  Along with gaiing  experience supporting vicitims of trauma and its impact when dealing with intense and overwhelming emotions.  I also provided short term therapy for anxiety and depression for the NHS.

I maintain continuous on-going training and work within the ethical boundaries of the NCIP. I’m DBS checked and fully insured.

I live with my partner and have 4 grown up step children.

How I can help you

• Couples I have seen in the past have told me that they found me warm, approachable and understanding.
• I provide a safe, confidential and uninterrupted space where you can talk about the challenges you are facing in your relationship. I will listen to both of your perspecitves and I will not judge or take sides. Relationships  can be difficult and becasue we are human, we don’t always behave in the most helpful way.
• My aim is help you communicate your thoughts, feelings and needs to each other in a calm and non-hurtful way. This will hopefully enable a greater understanding of eachother. I will encourage you both to really listen to each and value the others perspective, even if you don’t necessarily agree with it.  I will explain the tools available to help you during therapy, and you can choose which ones you think work best for you.
• You will be asked what you hope to achieve out of the couple therapy, if you know. If you don’t, that’s okay, I will help you find clarity and facilitate you working towards that goal. We will look for common ground and learn how to respect each other’s differences and then build upon that.
• Together, we will explore any external infleunces that might be negatively impacting your relationship and explore how we might be able to lessen them.

 Types of therapy offered

• Couples Therapy
• Marriage Counselling
• Therapy for Trauma
• Eating Disorders (binge eating disorder. Bulimia nervosa, anorexia nervosa and obesity. Concerns regarding food, weight and shape
• Carers for loved ones with eating disorders;
• Anxiety and depression
• Stress (including corporate stress);
• Bereavement
• Anger management

If you would like to book to see Andrew for Marriage Counselling Guildford. Please use this link to Book

Stephanie Taylor

 Couple Therapy Kingston upon Thames

Hello, my name is Stephanie, I am a fully qualified Integrative Relational Counsellor, and I’m highly experienced in working with couples and individuals. I have a CPCAB (Counselling and Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body) Level 5 Post Graduate Diploma in Relationship Counselling (Relate).

Perhaps you are seeking couples counselling because communication has broken down in your relationship, leaving you feeling hurt, resentful and/or unheard. Or maybe you are going through a period of transition and change, or an infidelity has come to light which feels impossible to overcome without professional support. For some couples, personality differences can lead to conflict and disappointment. Couples also seek relationship therapy for help in separating more amicably, or they are looking for clarity in the direction they would like their relationship to take.

I fully appreciate that taking the first step into couple therapy might feel daunting. Because you might be opening up to a stranger for the very first time, which isn’t always easy. However, rest assured, I provide a warm, empathetic environment for us to work together, at your chosen pace. Hopefully, this will enable you to feel comfortable enough to explore the challenges you are currently facing and work towards the goals you have set yourself and sustainable solutions.

When we embark on a relationship, it is right for us at that period of time and although we take care to align our values and interests, people can and do change. It is highly unlikely to remain unchanged by some of the challenge’s life throws at us.

I also have a deep understanding of how addictions, neurodiversity and mental health issues can impact relationships.

My approach to couple therapy

I prioritise a collaborative working relationship, which means we will define common goals and work together in order to achieve them. I don’t take a ‘one size fits all’ approach to couple therapy. Instead, my sessions are personalised and structured for your individual needs as well as the needs as a couple.

Ethical Standards – As a registered member of BACP I adhere to their ethical guidelines, ongoing supervision and CPD (Continual Professional Development) to ensure the service I provide to my clients is as effective as possible. I have both professional indemnity and public liability insurance.

Qualifications

• CPCAB (Counselling and Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body) Level 5 Post Graduate Diploma in Relationship Counselling (Relate)
• CPCAB (Counselling and Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body) Level 4 Diploma in
• Therapeutic Counselling (RHACC)
• CPCAB (Counselling and Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body) Level 3 Certificate in Counselling Skills (Lambeth College)
• CPCAB (Counselling and Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body) Level 2 Certificate in Counselling Skills (Lambeth College)
• BA (Hons) Fine Art (Nottingham Trent University)

Background/experience

I’m from the UK and have lived in the South West London  area the majority of my life. I live with my husband of 7 years and a school age daughter. I have a keen interest in health and fitness and how the mind and body work as one.

My work has always involved being with people, originally in the creative industry where I designed and executed window displays. I found myself becoming more and more drawn to understanding team dynamics and supporting my team to become more self aware about their working relationships. Since taking the plunge to train to be a therapist 6 years ago I have worked as a mentor for Surrey Care Trust, Headstrong, Relate Uk and in my own private practice for the last 2 years.

How I can help you

• You will receive interventions designed to fit your unique relationship needs. Therefore, I will ensure you both are equally heard and help you see that differences don’t always have to lead to conflict.
• We will explore how any unhelpful patterns of behaviour/communication might be negatively impacting your relationship
• I provide practical tools and techniques to help you maintain positive communication and understanding beyond the couple therapy sessions.
• My role is to help you reconnect with the reasons you chose each other in the first place. Then I will help you explore how your needs may have evolved over time and address any built-up resentment.
• It’s important to recognise how our upbringing and past experiences shape our relationships. I am not there to be the judge of whose behaviour is right or wrong. instead I will support you with a safe, calm environment so you can begin to understand each other’s intentions.

Types of therapy offered

• Couples Therapy
• Marriage Counselling
• Relationship Therapy
• Psychodynamic Therapy
• Person-Centred Therapy
• Integrative Therapy
• Transactional Analysis
• Existential Therapy

If you would like to make an appintment to see Stephanie for couple therapy Kingston-Upon-Thames. Then please click here to book

Claire Draper

Online Relationship Counselling

My name is Claire Draper and I’m an experienced couple counsellor providing online relationship therapy via Zoom. I’m a fully qualified Counsellor and Psychotherapist and member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling Psychotherapists). I have a CPCAB Diploma level 4 in a ‘Therapeutic Counselling’. I have over 9 years’ experience as a couple’s therapist and built a solid foundation in a variety of therapeutic techniques

Deciding to seek relationship therapy might feel quite daunting for some people. This is often because couples don’t know what to expect or are unsure about what they would like to achieve out of the relationship therapy. However, please rest assured, I pride myself on creating a safe, warm and calm environment to help you feel completely at ease.

Our first meeting is about getting to know each other and building rapport. I will take time to understand your unique needs, expectations and goal of the counselling. There’s no rush, we will work at a pace that is comfortable for you both.

I will assist in healing any underlying resentment which might be bubbling under the surface and stopping you moving forward. Together, we will discuss your goal for the relationship therapy and help you gain a greater understanding of yourself and each other.

My aim is to help you both identify and communicate your needs and expectations more clearly.  I will help provide the right tools to help you both feel validated, understood and happier.

Qualifications

• A CPCAB (Counselling Psychotherapy Central Award Body) ‘Level 4 Diploma in Psychotherapy and Counselling Skills’
• Registered membership BACP (British Association of Counselling & Psychotherapy)
• MHFA (Mental Health First Aider) qualification

Background/experience

My earlier career was working as a managing director for various organisations, managing large teams of people offering support and company strategies.

I’ve also worked for various charities at Kings Cross London, supporting individuals from diverse backgrounds and cultures through offering a safe space to talk.

I later became part of the charity outreach program. My role was to visit clients in their own homes, who were diagnosed with schizophrenia, psychosis and various mental health challenges.

After qualifying as a Psychotherapist, I started working at Bromley Counselling Centre,  I worked with families, individuals and couples to help them find a way forward.

I worked at Corelli Collage, Prendergast school Lewisham, Place to Be and drug and alcohol recovery Bromley, I have worked alongside social services for children and adults.

How I can help you 

• I will actively listen to your thoughts and feelings without judgement
• My confidential space which will allow you both the opportunity to explore the issues within your relationship, from your individual perspectives.
• I will help you emotionally recentre the relationship and unpick the details to help you find a way forward.
• You will have the time to speak, listen and to try and understand each other’s point of view and feelings.
• Together, we will establish a relationship based on openness, trust and respect

 Types of therapy offered 

• Couples Therapy
• Marriage Counselling
• LGBTQ+ Couple Counselling
• Relationship Counselling
• Depression Counselling
• Anxiety Therapy
• Person-Centered Therapy
• Bereavement Counselling
• Family Therapy
• Emotionally Focused Therapy
• Anger Management Therapy
• Young Person Therapy 11
• Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
• Psychodynamic Counselling
• Trauma Therapy

If you would like to make an appointment with Claire. Please Click Here or use the Book Now button below.

Sophie Hill

Couple Therapy Haslemere

Welcome and thank you for reading my profile. My name is Sophie and I’m a fully qualified ‘Humanistic’ therapist based at Relationship Counselling Surrey’s Haslemere practice. I have a Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling and I’m a registered member of the BACP (British Association Counsellors Psychotherapists)

The humanistic approach is about free will, self-discovery and achieving your full potential as a human being, rather than concentrating on individual problems or symptoms. Because I believe that empowering people to trust their instincts and believe in themselves is the foundation to understanding their mental health.

I provide a safe, confidential space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences – without judgement. Whether you choose to start therapy as part of a couple, or whether you are seeking relationship help just for yourself.

I do understand that it can take great courage to reach out for help with your relationship. However, most of us experience relationship difficulties at some point because life can be challenging at times, so I will ensure I make our sessions as comfortable as possible for you. Therefore, I provide a safe, confidential environment where we can work through your relationship difficulties together.

My approach to couple therapy is entirely dependent on each individual situation and the goal of the therapy (that is if you know of course) If you are unsure at this point and are seeking clarity, that’s okay, I will endeavour to help you find that.

Ethical Standards – Being a member of BACP means I subscribe to their code of ethics. This includes undertaking continuous professional development and clinical supervision. I also hold professional indemnity insurance.

Along with being an experienced relationship therapist, I also have experience with issues such as anxiety, depression, bereavement, addiction, trauma, emotional and physical abuse.

Qualifications

• Levle 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling.
• Advanced Diploma in Child and Young Person Counselling (Ad Dip PC)
• Mindfulness training.

Background/experience

Prior to qualifying as a counsellor, I worked with a local counselling community charity.

I have seen hundreds of couples and individuals learn how to navigate the challenges that arise during their life’s, as individuals, as partners and as parents.

How I can help you

• I will help you quickly feel at ease, listened to and most importantly understood. During the relationship counselling process, we will explore the problems at hand and look at a way to move you forward more positively, if that is what you want.
• It’s important that you both feel valued and respected whilst working through the relationship challenges you are experiencing. Therefore, I will encourage you to determine your desired outcome. Then, through the building of bridges, help you develop positive communication paths. This process will not only improve self- esteem, it will also allow respective voices to be heard.
• My easy-going approach will enable you to be heard and empowered in order to reach a more positive resolution going forward. I will help you gain a better understanding of each other’s perspectives.
• Our sessions will be conducted done via calm, non-accusatory, therapeutic process.
• You will both have a voice and be able to work through your relationship issues together for a more positive, sustainable outcome.

Types of therapy offered

• Couples Therapy
• Marriage Counselling
• Pre-Marital Counselling
• LGBTQ+ Couple Counselling
• Relationship Counselling
• Depression Counselling
• Anxiety Therapy
• Person-Centered Therapy
• Bereavement Counselling
• Family Therapy
• Anger Management Therapy
• Young Person Therapy 8
• Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

If you would like to make an appointment to see Sophie for Couple Therapy Haslemere then please use the ‘book now’ button below

Jolanta Lovelock

Couple Therapy Surbiton

Hello, my name is Jolanta Lovelock and I am a fully qualified Integrative Counsellor experienced in working with individuals and couples. I’m a registered member of BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy) and hold a professional qualification in Psychology. I also have a further education PGCE and an MA in Special Educational Needs.

I’m experienced in working with individual and couples from diverse social, cultural and religious backgrounds along with LGBTQIA+, neurodiverse individuals (ADHD, autism, dyslexia and dyspraxia) and clients with minor learning and/or physical disabilities.

My core area of expertise lies in relationship therapy ,and as an Integrative Counsellor I draw upon a wide range of therapeutic modalities, which is dependent on your specific needs and problems you bring into therapy.  During my therapy sessions, I use some elements of the Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Person- Centred therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Gestalt and Mindfulness. I also use techniques derived from EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy), Imago Relational Therapy and Solution Focused Therapy, when working with couples.

My approach to couple counselling

During both couple and one-to-one sessions, we will explore your thoughts, feelings, needs and patterns of behaviour. We will also look at childhood and life experiences, early attachments, previous relationships, your core values, love languages and also any significant events in your life that have contributed to your problems in relationship such as bereavement, illness, infertility and many others. This will help you understand your communication styles and any unhelpful patterns of behaviour that have developed over time, which might be causing problems in your relationship.

If you are looking for help in improving and strengthening your relationship, then I will encourage you both to actively participate in the therapy, by being transparent, open minded and ready to learn new skills, so that the therapy is most effective for you.

Perhaps you are contemplating bringing your relationship to an end and you are looking for help in how to separate amicably, especially if there are children or assets involved, I can also help you through that process.

I provide therapy sessions in both English and/or Polish.

I am DBS checked and hold Professional Indemnity Insurance.

Ethical Standards

As a registered member of BACP I adhere to their ethical guidelines, ongoing supervision and CPD (continual professional development) to ensure the service I provide the best possible service to my clients.

Qualifications

• Level 5 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling
• Post Graduate Certificate in Counselling and Guidance
• Post Graduate Diploma in Psychology
• MA in Special Educational Needs

 Background/experience

I was born in Poland but have lived in the UK for the majority of my life. I’ve been married for 30 years to an Irish-English man and have one grown up daughter (and two cats!) As far as can I remember I have also been interested in people and the workings of the mind, body and spirit.

I completed an MA in Special Educational Needs in Poland and my teaching qualifications. Along with my post-graduate diplomas in Psychology and Counselling in the UK. Over a 25-year period I worked as a qualified teacher, personal tutor, learning mentor/coach and with young people, families and adults. I also had this the opportunity to work with people from families diverse social, cultural and religious background, alongside members of the LGBTQIA+ community.

Since qualifying as a therapist, I have been working as a counsellor at Kingston Women’s Centre, Kingston University and then as a partner counsellor at the BodyMind Centre in Weybridge and at Surbiton Counselling Partnership. I have also been running my own private therapy practice for the last few years.

How I can help you

• I will help you gain a better understanding of yourself and each other’s thoughts, feelings and needs. Alongside this, we will look at both of your core values, attachment styles, love languages and life and relationship goals.
• My role as a couple counsellor is not to “fix” you, your partner or your relational issues. Instead, I will be there to guide and support you during the relationship counselling process. My aim is to help you improve communication to better understand each other, on a much deeper level. We will work together, to try and resolve the issues in your relationship. That way, you can move forward more positively – in whichever way you choose.
• There might be times, that I need to gently challenge you both to think about how your individual behaviour might be negatively impacting your relationship. This is an essential part of the therapy process.
• I will guide you towards making the required changes in order for your relationship to be happier for you both. Although I will be there for you every step of the way, you will be you doing the essential work.  Therefore your commitment to the therapy will be vital.
• I work in relational way. Which means drawing attention to what is happening in the here-and-now. So it’s important  you both feel safe and comfortable working with me. Therefore, I will endeavour to demonstrate care, empathy and respect. I’m not there to judge or take sides because it’s not about who is right and wrong. Instead, it is about gaining understanding of each other’s perspectives so you can move forward.

If you would like to make an appointment with Jolanta for couple therapy Surbiton. Then please book her via This link 

Rose Stephen

Couple Counselling Weybridge

Hello. My name is Rose Stephen and I am a fully qualified Psychotherapeutic Counsellor and I’m highly experienced in working couples and individuals. I have a‘Higher Level Diploma in Couples Counselling and I’m an accredited member of BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy).

My area of expertise is relationship therapy. Over the years, I have helped hundreds of couples and individuals find ways of resolving their relationship issues. I provide a safe, confidential space and will endeavour to help you feel relaxed enough to explore the problems you are facing in the most helpful ways.

I fully understand that the ‘one size fits all approach’ does NOT suit every couple’s unique situation. Therefore, I will always take this into account during our sessions. This means I will ask you both to take the lead to try and achieve the goal you have set for yourselves. However, if you are still determining which direction you would like the relationship to take, I will help you find clarity by providing various tools and techniques to help you get there.

The primary goal of couple therapy sessions is to assist both partners in communicating more effectively. By doing so, you will gain a better understanding of yourselves and each other. I will support you in understanding how communication can be conveyed and received by both individuals. Research has shown that life experiences can often cause miscommunication in relationships and subjective interpretations of each other’s language or behaviour. Therefore, exploring these areas can lead to greater understanding, which, in turn, can reduce any hurt, resentment, or anger that may have developed over time.

As a psychotherapist, I use different approaches when working with clients, depending on their situation and needs. This might include cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT), psychodynamic therapy, Trauma Focus Therapy, humanistic therapy and solution-focused therapy. I may also use one or a combination of these approaches to help clients achieve their goals.

Qualifications

• Higher National Diploma: Couples counselling,
• Diploma of Higher Education: Cognitive Behavioural Therapy,
• MSc of Forensic Psychology and Criminal Investigation
• Bachelor of Science: BSc in Substance Misuse Management
• Higher National Diploma: Therapeutic Counselling,

Background/experience

Before becoming a Couples Counsellor, I gained extensive experience working in the Criminal Justice System, Drug and Alcohol Services and NHS Mental Health. My passion for the psychological aspects of care led me to become a counsellor. Because I could provide emotional support and empower clients with the tools and skills they need to take control of their lives. I always work within the ethical boundaries of the BACP and ensure that I maintain my continuous ongoing training requirements. Additionally, I am fully insured, and DBS has been checked for your peace of mind.

 How I can help you

• Couples who have seen me previously said that I am warm, understanding and easy to talk to.
• I’m aware that some people might find it challenging taking the first step in seeking help with their relationship. However, rest assured, my couple of counselling sessions will be conducted in a calm and supportive way and I am certainly not there to judge who is right or wrong in any given situation.
• My sessions are conducted in a comfortable environment where you can express your thoughts, feelings, and vulnerabilities.
• I will help you both really listen, hear and understand each other’s perspectives. Which, in turn, will hopefully lead to a deeper understanding of the other person
• We will work together to help you develop the right skills so conversations do not have to lead to conflict. I will provide you with the tools to help you deal with differences in a structured, effective, and safe manner.

 Types of therapy offered

• Couples Therapy
• LGBTQ+ Couple Counselling
• Relationship Counselling
• Depression Counselling
• Anxiety Therapy
• Person-Centred Therapy
• Bereavement Counselling
• Young Person Therapy 13
• Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT
• Trauma Focus Therapy

If you would like to book a session with Rose at couple counselling Weybridge. Please do so via the book now link below

Vjosa Rizaj

Couple Counselling Banstead

Hello, I’m Vjosa, a dedicated Psychotherapist specialising in helping couples and individuals navigate the complexities of their relationships.  I hold a Masters in Counselling and I am a member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy)

My approach to couple therapy is compassionate and ‘Client-Centered’. Which means the emphasis will be on your experiences and you will lead the therapy process. I take the view that each person/couple is unique and everyone’s view of his or her own world, and their ability to manage it, should be trusted.

I believe that every relationship is unique and deserves personalised attention. My approach is collaborative, empowering clients to identify their goals and develop strategies to achieve them. Whether you are hoping to make your relationship work better than it currently is or whether you are looking for help in separating more amicably. I draw upon a wide range of therapeutic modalities to tailor my approach to suit your specific needs and situation.

I understand that taking the step to seek couple counselling, might feel quite daunting. However, rest assured, I’m here to provide guidance and support every step of the way. I provide a safe and confidential space where we can work together to build healthier and happier relationships.

As a member of BACP I adhere to the highest ethical standards and continuously engage in professional development to ensure I provide the best possible support to my clients.

Qualifications

• Masters – Counselling (Goldsmiths, University of London)
• BSc (hons) Psychology & Counselling (Roehampton University)
• Masters – Understanding domestic abuse and sexual abuse (Goldsmiths, University of London)
• Certificate – Relationships, Trauma and Addictions 

Background/experience

With over 6 years of dedicated work in the field of counselling, I bring a wealth of experience and expertise to my practice. My journey into counselling was inspired by a deep-seated passion for fostering healthy and fulfilling relationships.

Throughout my career, I have had the privilege of working with individuals and couples from diverse backgrounds and relationship dynamics. My approach is rooted in empathy, understanding, and a genuine desire to help my client’s overcome obstacles and cultivate meaningful connections with their partners. I am committed to providing a supportive and non-judgmental space where clients can explore their concerns openly and work towards positive change in their relationships.

 How I can help you

• I will work with you to improve communication between and devise conflict resolution skills
• Together, we will navigate any challenges such as infidelity, trust issues or intimacy concerns
• My aim is to help you strengthen emotional connection and intimacy in relationships
• I will help you address any issues related to family dynamics, parenting and/or life transitions
• I’m going to be there to support you in making informed decisions about your relationship. Whether that involves reconciliation or separation

 Types of therapy offered

• Couples Therapy
• Marriage Counselling
• Pre-Marital Counselling
• LGBTQ+ Relationship Counselling
• Individual Counselling for Relationship Issues
• Divorce Counselling

If you would like to make an appointment to see Vjosa for couple counselling Banstead. Then please do so via this link 

Michelle Fussell

Marriage Therapy Guildford

Hello, my name is Michelle and I am a qualified Therapist based at Relationship Counselling Surrey’s Guildford practice. I hold a Post Graduate Diploma in Counselling and I’m accredited by the MBACP (British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists) and the UKRCP (United Kingdom Register for Counsellors and Psychotherapists)

Although I qualified as a Psychodynamic Therapist, I tend to work in an eclectic and creative way whilst couple counselling. Which means I use a variety of different therapeutic approaches to suit your unique situation and individual needs, in order for you to find a more positive way forward.

Perhaps it’s the first time you have sought couple therapy and you are wondering what to expect. Or maybe you have had couple counselling before. Whatever your situation, I do appreciate that it can take great courage to reach out for help with your relationship. However, please rest assured, I create a warm, safe environment in order for you to feel comfortable enough to open up about what is going on for you. I’m not there to takes side or pass judgement. Instead I will be there to listen to your combined experiences I the relationship and help you improve the communication between you.

At the beginning of our first session, I will ask you what you hope to achieve out of the therapy. Whether you are hoping to make your relationship work better than it currently is, or perhaps you would like me to help you separate more amicably. At this point, you might feel unsure or you might have different answers. That’s okay, we will work together to help you find clarity.

Alongside offering Relationship Therapy, I am also experienced in issues such as abuse, ADD/ADHD, addictions, anger management and anxiety. Along with working with people on the autism spectrum, suffering bereavement, childhood related issues, chronic fatigue syndrome / ME.

In addition to this, I also work with depression, disability, OCD, phobias, post-traumatic stress and work-related issues.

Ethical Standards – As an accredited member of MBACP and UKRCP I adhere to their ethical guidelines, ongoing supervision and CPD (Continual Professional Development) to ensure the service I provide the best possible service to my clients.

Qualifications

• Brunel University Sociology (BSc)
• Goldsmiths University Post Graduate Diploma in Counselling
• Post Graduate Diploma in Play Therapy
• University Post Graduate Certificate in Play Therapy
• Postgraduate Certificate in Youth and Community

Accreditations

• MACC Registered Accredited Counsellor
• UKRCP Registered Independent Counsellor
• MBACP Registered Accredited Counsellor

Background/experience

Prior to qualifying as a Counsellor 10 years ago I used to foster children as a single parent. I was also a Church of England Youth Worker for 18 years and a residential social worker for 6 years. This broad array of experience has enabled me exposure to a wide range of people of all ages, backgrounds, and cultures, in variety of different types of relationships.

I started my own private therapy practice in 2004. Alongside providing relationship counselling, I also specialise in trauma, neurodiversity, adoption and family work,

My work has also been within the court system with ‘Divorce Matters’ and I’m an accredited Play Therapist with PTUK. In addition to this, I qualified as a supervisor to help other therapists and an adoption Counsellor with Barnardo’s.

How I can help you

• I will walk the relationship therapy journey with you both to help you develop better ways of connecting in your relationship.
• Your couple therapy sessions with me will be in a safe, confidential space where you will both feel heard and respected
• We will explore the dynamics between you, whilst allowing you the time and space to individually express yourselves, be listened to and validated.
• I will encourage you to be honest with yourselves, with each other and with me in order to help move you forward.
• My aim is to ensure you are both patient, tolerant and respectful of each other’s thoughts and feelings. Therefore, I will facilitate an environment where you can both properly listen

 Types of therapy offered

• Couples Therapy
• Marriage Counselling
• Relationship Counselling
• Depression Counselling
• Anxiety Therapy
• Trauma Therapy
• Psychodynamic Therapy
• Counselling for Depression
• Person-Centered Therapy
• Bereavement Counselling
• Family Therapy
• Anger Management Therapy
• Young Person Therapy 3+
• Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

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