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    Andrew Spencer, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Andrew Spencer

    Guildford

    Andy is a highly experienced relationship counsellor based in Guildford. He works with both couples and individuals, offering a safe space to explore communication breakdowns, emotional distance, sexual problems and conflict. Drawing on Gestalt, Transactional Analysis, and Person-Centred . Andy helps partners understand each other better, rebuild trust, and create healthier, more respectful ways of relating. Clients describe him as warm, grounded, and easy to talk to.

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    Deborah Leaver, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Deborah Leaver

    Walton-on-Thames

    Deborah is a qualified and highly experienced Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist based at Relationship Counselling Walton-on-Thames. She specialises in helping couples improve communication, rebuild trust, and resolve conflict in a supportive, understanding environment. Using an integrative approach that blends evidence-based methods with warmth and empathy, Deborah helps partners explore how past experiences and communication styles influence their relationship today. Her sessions offer a safe space for both individuals to feel heard, respected, and understood — guiding you towards greater connection, emotional balance, and a more fulfilling relationship.

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    Ellen Jameson, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Ellen Jameson

    Cobham

    Ellen is a fully qualified and experienced Relationship Therapist based at Relationship Counselling Cobham. She works with both individuals and couples, providing a calm, compassionate space to explore communication issues, emotional disconnection, affairs, or other relationship challenges. Drawing on her background in Narrative and Relationship Therapy. Ellen helps couples gain deeper understanding, rebuild trust, and find clarity about the future of their relationship. Her flexible, collaborative style ensures that each session is tailored to your needs, empowering you to make meaningful, lasting changes and strengthen the connection you share with yourself and others.

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    Jolanta Lovelock, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Jolanta Lovelock

    Surbiton

    Jolanta Lovelock is a fully qualified integrative counsellor who works with individuals and couples. She is a BACP-registered therapist with experience supporting clients from diverse and LGBTQIA+ backgrounds, including neurodiverse clients. Jolanta provides a warm, balanced space to help couples improve communication, understand unhelpful patterns, and move forward with greater clarity, whether together or through separation.

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    Jessica Grante, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Jessica Grante

    Kingswood

    Jessica is a qualified and highly experienced psychotherapeutic counsellor and couples therapist. She offers a calm, supportive, and non-judgemental space where you and your partner can talk openly and work through what feels difficult. Using an integrative approach, Jessica blends person-centred, psychodynamic, and transactional methods to help couples understand themselves and each other more deeply. Whether you are navigating conflict, rebuilding trust, or need clarity about the future of your relationship, she provides practical guidance, structured tools, and steady support so you can reconnect with confidence and respect.

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    Michelle Fussell, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Michelle Fussell

    Guildford

    Michelle is a qualified and highly experienced Relationship Therapist based at Relationship Counselling Surrey’s Guildford practice. She offers a calm, supportive space where couples can explore communication difficulties, rebuild trust, and find clarity about the future of their relationship. Combining psychodynamic, person-centred, and CBT-informed techniques Michelle takes an eclectic and creative approach tailored to each couple’s unique situation. Compassionate and down-to-earth, she helps partners express themselves openly, understand each other’s perspectives, and move towards a more connected, respectful, and fulfilling relationship.

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    Sian Jones, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Sian Jones

    Online

    Sian Jones is the founder of Relationship Counselling Surrey and a relationship counsellor with over 15 years’ experience. She holds a BSc (Hons) in Psychology, alongside qualifications in psychotherapy and CBT, and supports couples across the UK through online therapy. Sian takes an active, step by step approach to help couples understand each other’s perspectives, work through relationship difficulties, and move forward with greater clarity, whether that means strengthening their relationship or separating more amicably.

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    Claire Draper, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Claire Draper

    Online

    Claire is a warm, compassionate and experienced online couples counsellor. With over 11 years’ experience, she provides a safe, calm space where partners can talk openly and feel equally heard. Claire supports couples to improve communication, rebuild emotional closeness, and work through challenges without judgement. Whether you feel stuck, resentful, or unsure what the future holds, Claire will help you gain clarity and move forward in a way that feels right for you both

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    Katrina Voysey, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Katrina Voysey

    Coulsdon

    Katrina is a fully qualified psychotherapist and couples counsellor based at Relationship Counselling Coulsdon, with over 30 years’ experience and BACP registration. She offers a warm, supportive space where couples can feel heard and work through challenges such as communication difficulties, trust issues, affairs, and growing apart. Katrina helps couples understand their relationship patterns, strengthen emotional connection, and develop healthier ways of communicating, whether they are looking to rebuild their relationship or separate with greater clarity and care. Katrina is a registered member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy)

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    Andrew Allan, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Andrew Allan

    Online

    Andrew is a warm and approachable therapist with specialist training in couples counselling and psychosexual therapy. He works with couples of all ages, backgrounds, and orientations, as well as individuals seeking support with relationship concerns. Andrew tailors his approach to the unique needs of each couple, helping partners explore past influences, improve communication, and build healthier ways of relating. Andrew can also support couples who decide to separate, guiding them through the process as respectfully and amicably as possible. Clients describe Andrew as understanding and supportive, creating a space where both partners feel equally heard.

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    Daniel Saccoccio, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Daniel Saccoccio

    Online

    Daniel Saccoccio is a BACP-registered person-centred therapist and relationship counsellor, with over 10 years’ specialist training in couple therapy through Relate. He offers a warm, non-judgemental space for couples to feel heard, understand each other better, and work through relationship difficulties. Drawing on both professional training and lived experience, Daniel supports couples to improve communication, break unhelpful patterns, and build healthier, more connected relationships.

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    Rose Stephen, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Rose Stephen

    Weybridge

    Rose is a fully qualified and highly experienced Psychotherapeutic Counsellor based at Relationship Counselling Weybridge. She specialises in couples therapy, helping partners improve communication, rebuild trust, and strengthen emotional connection. Rose provides a calm, non-judgemental space where both individuals can feel heard and understood while exploring the issues that have brought them to therapy. Drawing on a range of approaches including CBT, Psychodynamic, and Solution-Focused Therapy, she tailors each session to meet your needs. Her warm and supportive style helps couples navigate challenges, resolve conflict constructively, and move forward with greater understanding and respect.

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    Stephanie Taylor, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Stephanie Taylor

    Kingston-Upon-Thames

    Stephanie is a fully qualified and experienced Relationship Therapist based at Relationship Counselling Kingston upon Thames. She offers a calm, supportive space where couples can explore communication breakdowns, trust issues, and emotional disconnection with empathy and structure. Drawing on her CPCAB Level 5 Postgraduate Diploma in Relationship Counselling (Relate), Stephanie takes a collaborative and tailored approach to help partners reconnect, resolve conflict, or separate more peacefully when that’s the right path. Compassionate, insightful, and practical, she helps couples understand each other’s needs, improve communication, and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Stephanie is a registered member of the BACP, adhering to their strict ethical guidelines and commitment to ongoing professional development.

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    Denese MacDonald, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Denese MacDonald

    Online

    Denese is a highly experienced relationship counsellor offering online couples therapy. A certified Imago Therapist and certified sex therapy-informed professional and integrative practitioner, she draws on over 23 years of experience helping couples break painful cycles, improve communication, and reconnect emotionally and physically.

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    Janine Knight, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Janine Knight

    Online

    Janine is a fully qualified online relationship counsellor, trained with Relate and qualified to Levels 4 & 5 Diploma's in Relationship Counselling. She offers a caring, step-by-step approach to help couples work through difficulties such as loss of connection, betrayal, low mood, and communication problems. Janine provides a balanced, non-judgemental space where both partners can be heard, understand relationship patterns, and gain clarity about what they need moving forward. Janine is a registered member of the BACP

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    Shireen Maclennan, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Shireen Maclennan

    Cobham

    Shireen is a qualified and experienced Couples Counsellor based in Cobham. She supports couples in moving beyond conflict, rebuilding trust, and strengthening emotional connection. Drawing on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) techniques alongside existential and attachment approaches, she helps partners understand how their thoughts, emotions, and behaviours that influence their relationship dynamic. Warm, structured, and collaborative, Shireen provides a calm space where both individuals feel heard and supported, guiding you to break unhelpful cycles, improve communication, and build a healthier, more fulfilling relationship together.

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    Madeleine Kingsley, counsellor and psychotherapist
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    Madeleine Kingsley

    Online

    Madeleine Kingsley is a Relate-trained online couples counsellor with over 30 years’ experience and BACP registration. She offers a safe, non-judgemental space to help couples work through challenges such as conflict, affairs, life transitions, and loss of intimacy. Madeleine supports couples to understand each other’s perspectives, improve communication, and rebuild closeness and desire, helping relationships move forward in a realistic and compassionate way.

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    Real experiences from clients who found support and healing with our therapists.

    “Jessica was very kind, insightful and understanding, and made it very easy to open up to her. She helped us start talking constructively about things that had got too difficult to broach.”

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    Session with Jessica Grante
    1 day ago

    “Jessica was exactly what we needed at the right time. Our marriage was in a bad place, and she really guided us, in a neutral way, to see where we were disconnecting and how we could work together to save our relationship. Thanks to Jessica our marriage is better than it’s ever been - always very grateful to how she brought us back to each other.”

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    Sarah
    Session with Jessica Grante
    3 days ago

    “Sian is an amazing counsellor. She listens well, allows both sides to communicate, is honest and is very good at analysing the underlying issues to get to the root cause of it, which is absolutely necessary in order to start addressing the real problem. I felt a safe space with her. Before the first session, things were hanging on its last hinge. By the end of the first session, things turned around. Communication was much improved as there was better understanding of each other. I would highly recommend her service and would also use her again. I only wish I had found her sooner!”

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    Adelle
    Session with Sian Jones
    3 days ago

    “Sian’s support has had a profound impact on my life. She helped me reflect honestly on every aspect of my life and understand how my actions and decisions had affected the people I love most. With her professional, compassionate and impartial guidance, she helped me and my family work through some incredibly difficult issues and, most importantly, helped us find a way forward together. Her ability to provide a safe and non judgemental space allowed me to be completely honest with myself and take responsibility for the things I needed to change. I am enormously grateful to Sian for her guidance, understanding and professionalism. Her help has made a genuine and lasting difference to both me and my family.”

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    Richard
    Session with Sian Jones
    5 days ago

    “Sian helped me and my partner work through our constant arguments. She helped us clearly define which behaviours and issues were causing us to disagree. And then helped us find a resolution and understand each other's viewpoint. I can confirm and say confidently that Sian helped save our relationship. Thank you Sian.”

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    Lew
    Session with Sian Jones
    5 days ago

    “Rose has been excellent. She is a great listener, stays calm and collected. Is great at clarifying the situation and is helping us work towards some much needed improvements in our shared communication. Very grateful we made this investment in our relationship. We continue to use Rose and recommend her.”

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    Louise
    Session with Rose Stephen
    6 days ago

    “Both my partner and I (who don't agree on much!) really liked Daniel's approach. Daniel is good at reading between the lines and bringing unsaid things out into the open. He helped us have much franker conversations than we ever managed on our own.”

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    Diana S.
    Session with Daniel Saccoccio
    1 week ago

    “My wife and I had couples therapy with Denese over the course of 9 months. We appreciated Denese's mix of listening, interpretation, and guidance. It helped us see our problems more clearly and she gave helpful suggestions for us to try. I'm happy to say that we are now in a better place.”

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    Session with Denese MacDonald
    1 week ago

    “Sian was a great help to us, she made me feel really at ease and able to open up, she listened and I felt she really took the time to understand me and our relationship, but also was able to offer constructive advice which I have been able to implement and has been really helpful. I wouldn’t hesitate to see her again for sessions in the future.”

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    Marianne
    Session with Sian Jones
    1 week ago

    “I value every session with Dan, because it always leaves me with a sense of clarity and the ensuing "lightness of being." I appreciate the very practical approach, the fact that he is frank, and will not always tell me what I want to hear, but rather what I need to hear.”

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    Eric
    Session with Daniel Saccoccio
    1 week ago

    “She was engaged and I felt very held in our sessions”

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    Vicky
    Session with Jessica Grante
    1 week ago

    “I would recommend Janine, she’s very patience and fair, I found her sessions extremely valuable for couples but also a solo counselling session I had myself”

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    Lucy
    Session with Janine Knight
    1 week ago

    “Claire has been an excellent therapist and guide to navigating our relationship”

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    Robin
    Session with Claire Draper
    1 week ago

    “Janine was kind, thoughtful and supportive in our experience, helping us navigate very difficult and complicated issues in our relationship.”

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    Alice
    Session with Janine Knight
    2 weeks ago

    “My husband and I came to Deborah as we were experiencing challenges in our marriage. Deborah was easy to talk to, and always had practical suggestions to our emotional struggles. She guided us to remove blame from the equation and focus on respect and understanding even when views were quite different. After 6 months we feel like a completely different relationship, based on trust, respect and a deeper understanding of each other. For that we are incredibly grateful.”

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    Session with Deborah Leaver
    2 weeks ago

    “Stephanie is brilliant at listening and guiding and helping to identify the issues that need to be addressed - I cannot recommend her highly enough (and already have!)”

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    Elaine
    Session with Stephanie Taylor
    2 weeks ago

    “Andrew helped me and my partner work through some difficult issues and got us to a much more comfortable place. Love and trust restored. Thank you Andrew!”

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    Session with Andrew Allan
    2 weeks ago

    “Andrew is very good and professional. It was great working with him and recommendi”

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    Kelly
    Session with Andrew Allan
    2 weeks ago

    “Jessica was very personable and made us both feel very comfortable and able to speak about what we wanted without judgement and to talk freely First time for us as a couple ao quote daunting prior but as soon as we sat down Jessica was amazing and made a painful process so much better Looking forward to booking again to help us on our journey”

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    Joanne
    Session with Jessica Grante
    2 weeks ago

    “This has been one of the best things I have done for us as a couple. Not all couple counselling is to repair, some are to strengthen bonds and that is exactly what I did. Almost like going to the gym so that I don't have to go to the doctor. Katrina is a great relationship gymnastics instructor! We were able to understand where our strengths are and where the weakness is and we came out of this stronger. My parter and I grew up in different cultures hence bridging that gap was done beautifully by Katrina and the personalised emails detailing healing steps, understanding situation etc and useful toolkits to navigate life are worth everything. As a millennial I am proud to be actively taking action to improve our married life and mental health and Katrina has been an important part of that journey.”

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    Session with Katrina Voysey
    2 weeks ago

    “I had a really positive experience with my therapist. She made us feel comfortable, listened without judgment, and created a safe space where we could openly share my thoughts and feelings. They were patient, compassionate, and offered practical strategies that helped me better understand myself and manage difficult situations. Claire showed empathy and compassion and I would highly recommend them to anyone looking for a caring, knowledgeable, and effective therapist.”

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    Tina and Robin
    Session with Claire Draper
    3 weeks ago

    “We were nervous but from our very first session, Sian instantly put us at ease. She never took sides and helped us understand each other’s perspective in a way we hadn’t managed before. We communicate so much better now and would highly recommend her!”

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    Anonymous
    Session with Sian Jones
    3 weeks ago

    “We were close to giving up on our relationship when we started counselling. Sian helped us rebuild trust, improve our communication and understand the patterns we kept falling into. Every session felt worth every penny, we can’t thank her enough!”

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    Claire & Sue
    Session with Sian Jones
    3 weeks ago

    “What an absolute gem! Janine's ability to draw issues out of us both and address them in a sensitive manor, making us self reflect and raise awkward topics is fantastic.”

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    Session with Janine Knight
    3 weeks ago

    “Michelle is knowledgeable, so can use whatever therapeutic approach is needed in any given moment, this makes sessions dynamic and interesting. She has a good understanding of neurodiversity which is particularly helpful to us - our family is full of neurodiversity! We have found her very helpful, she challenges us in the right way and knows how to support us to get the best out of our marriage.”

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    Rosie
    Session with Michelle Fussell
    3 weeks ago

    “Brilliant, responsive, flexible and very helpful - thank you!”

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    Melanie
    Session with Madeleine Kingsley
    3 weeks ago

    “Jessica has really helped me understand myself better and how my actions and mindset can affect my relationship. She is able to see both sides of a situation which has helped me navigate situations more effectively.”

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    Charlotte
    Session with Jessica Grante
    3 weeks ago

    “Excellent. Janine was very attentive and shrewd, and help us make positive progress. Note that we have already left fuller feedback reponse to anearlier request from OCC.”

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    LynJ
    Session with Janine Knight
    4 weeks ago

    “Claire has been amazing. She is professional, caring, and has helped us more than we ever expected. Thank you much.”

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    Session with Claire Draper
    4 weeks ago

    “Exceptionally insightful, clear, careful yet efficient leading me to self revelations and understanding triggers, nervous system responses and SO much more. I cannot recommend more highly.”

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    Charlotte
    Session with Denese MacDonald
    4 weeks ago

    “Ellen is a fantastic therapist! She helped us so much. Thank you!”

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    Alex
    Session with Ellen Jameson
    4 weeks ago

    “Claire is an excellent therapist and helped me and my partner overcome some serious issues. Thank you so much Claire :)”

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    Danny
    Session with Claire Draper
    4 weeks ago

    “We can’t thank Sian enough for helping us through such a difficult time. She created a calm, balanced environment where we both felt heard and understood. The practical advice and gentle guidance have made a real difference to our relationship.”

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    Sarah & James
    Session with Sian Jones
    4 weeks ago

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