Couple Counselling in Cobham

“Andrew is an incredibly knowledgeable, empathetic and genuinely excellent therapist. I always feel listened to and understood, and my sessions with him are consistently productive and useful. He always comes up with thoughtful ideas and different perspectives that give me plenty to reflect on and help me make progress. I’m currently taking a break from therapy while dealing with side effects from antidepressants, but I will DEFINITELY be working with Andrew again. I’m extremely grateful for all his help and support and genuinely can’t recommend him enough.”

“Andrew is an excellent listener and makes for a perfect sounding board. I can highly recommend him as a therapist. He can bring things to mind which maybe weren't thought of before.”

“Madeleine has followed us for a year now. She has an honest, approachable and practical approach that resonated well with us. It always felt comfortable exchanging with her and she has managed both our personalities with ease. Thank you Madeleine!”

“I’d like to share our very positive experience with Andrew. My partner is comfortable with talking about her feelings and past; I am not! This made me reluctant to agree to reach out to Andrew for help. However we did so and it was the right decision. Andrew picked up on each of our comfort levels and navigated it well with questions / exercises / discussion points to allow us to find the root cause of our difficulties and then provided tactics to help. He did push but never too far and was happy to let us go at our own pace. Also, he did recognise when he though we should “try it alone” and didn’t try to push for more business - very honest! Overall he’s been a massive help and provided us the tools to progress ourselves. Our relationship has recovered massively and now has solid foundations on which to progress. If you’re looking for relationship help then I’m happy to highly recommend Andrew.”

“We honestly couldn’t recommend Janine enough. From the very beginning, she has made us both feel comfortable, heard and understood. She has a wonderful way of understanding both sides without making either of us feel judged or uncomfortable. Janine is incredibly patient, thoughtful and really good at what she does. She has helped us communicate with each other in a much healthier and more constructive way, and has given us tools and understanding that have made a real difference to our relationship. We’re both genuinely so happy that we found her. Couples counselling can feel quite daunting, but Janine has created a safe and supportive environment where we can both be open and honest. We’ve been really pleased with how much she has helped us.”

“Deborah has been a great support during a difficult time. She stayed neutral, asking questions that brought answers we didn't even know of and brought us to understand how we got to this place. Supporting each of us equally with care, professionalism and guidance. The results made me feel reassured, supported and confident and helped us both to communicate through separation in a kinder way. Thank you Deborah.”

“Andrew was very kind and compassionate with some very valid points that has helped me considerably on my next chapter”

“Our sessions with Denise were excellent. I am so grateful for the way our work with her has helped us. She was able to see and understand both of us so clearly and gave us a safe space to talk through our struggles and learn to understand each other's perspectives. With her guidance we were able to communicate and understand each other in a way that we simply could not have done on our own. I would highly recommend her to anyone looking for support with thier relationship”

“Michelle has been extremely patient, insightful and helpful for us. We are making good progress in rebuilding our relationship as a result of Michelle’s support.”

“Jolanta was a pleasure to work with, she took her time to get to know us and our situation. I found her to be very personable and understandable and I liked her style. I would definitely come to Jolanta again and would highly recommended!”

“When we first came to counselling, we were in one of the hardest places our relationship had ever been. We didn't know what the future held, but from our very first session, our therapist created a space where we both felt safe, heard and never judged. She has an incredible way of asking questions that encourage real reflection, helping us understand not only each other but ourselves as well. Even when the conversations have been painful, we've always left feeling supported, hopeful and with a better understanding of how to communicate. She has shown genuine compassion, patience and kindness throughout our journey, while gently challenging us when we needed it. Her warmth and professionalism have helped us have conversations we never thought we'd be able to have. We're still on our journey, but we've already made progress that didn't seem possible when we first walked through her door. We will always be grateful for the guidance, encouragement and belief she's shown in us. If you're looking for someone who truly cares and creates a safe, supportive environment to help you navigate even the most difficult times, we couldn't recommend her more highly. Thank you for helping us find hope again.”

“Calm, insightful and caring approach. Madeleine enabled my partner and I to explore our relationship in a frank and honest way, without a sense of blame being felt. We were both able to recognise the responsibility we held, as individuals and as a couple, for the problems in our relationship and how we could move forward together, without the past holding us back. Thank you Madeleine, you have supported us to rediscover what makes our relationship worth fighting for.”

“Rose was incredibly insightful and helped us to explore our feelings and experiences with care and sensitivity.”

“Amazing support and good help”

“Dan has been of great support to both myself and my partner both in couples and individual sessions, working through such a hard time following infidelity and a long history of having gotten used to a certain way of communicating with each other. Myself and my partner are now building what I believe to be a genuinely more fulfilling (albeit different) new relationship in the wake of what we experienced and for this we both thank him.”

“Speaking with Andrew is extremely productive, thought provoking and he gave me confidence to be completely open from the start. He immensely helped me think in the round and demonstrated incredible study models that resonated well with me. Andrew is calm, courteous and incredibly understanding. I always looked forward to our meetings and thoroughly recommend him.”

“Very clear about the process. Circled back to be certain he understood what we needed to say. Have us each plenty of time to share our perspectives and helped us deliver the message to each other in a way that reflected our feelings whilst maintaining respectful boundaries.”

“Professional! He know how to help for couples!”

“Madeline was incredible. I didn't think I needed therapy and was against it at first but Madeline made it so easy that it just felt like a conversation that was needed. Her time with us has strengthened our relationship massively and put us back to where we used to be”

“Working with Andrew has helped me in dealing with a stressful period both at work and personally. He gave me understanding of my stressors and techniques in how to manage them going forward. I feel I have some tools to recognise what can overwhelm me and ways to manage these. I would recommend Andrew to anyone facing similar challenges and looking for a strategies to feel calmer.”

“Deborah has been a great support and sound voice for me. I am sure I will be back as needed!”

“Madeleine is simply an angel - one of the kindest people I have ever met in my life. She'll always make you feel heard and cared for. Thank you for all your help in keeping the most precious thing to both of us intact.”

“A big thank you to Janine for all her help. After a difficult few years with a lot of stress that began to eat into our relationship, my partner and I decided to look for a couples’ therapist. Janine has helped in so many ways including helping resolving conflicts and underlying issues. I’d say it’s not just her knowledge that’s really good but her empathy which I think really shows in each meeting. After various struggles we’ve both been through, it’s been incredibly helpful for both of us to have someone who can gently lower the temperature and help us see each other’s point of view. The sessions have been invaluable. There is still work to do but we are on the right track and a lot happier.”

“Dan was experienced and supportive in equal measure.”

“My husband and I had couples counselling sessions with Dan, and we had a very positive experience. He is very straightforward and gets to the point, while giving practical advice and clear structure to help guide difficult conversations in a more constructive direction. Dan is professional, supportive, and also willing to challenge you when needed, which we found really valuable. We’ve been using some of the techniques he taught us outside the sessions, and we’ve already noticed an improvement in how we communicate with each other. I would definitely recommend Dan to couples who are looking for practical guidance and someone who can help them communicate more effectively.”

“Denese was very kind and patient working with the both of us.”

“Jessica was incredibly approachable and made us both feel very comfortable from the outset. She created a safe and supportive environment where we could be open and honest, and it felt easy to talk about things that might otherwise have been difficult to raise. She helped us explore issues and patterns that perhaps hadn’t been obvious to us before, and gave us a different perspective on our relationship and the challenges we were experiencing. We really appreciated her calm, non-judgemental approach and the way she made sure we both felt heard. We would highly recommend Jessica to any couple looking for thoughtful, compassionate and effective support.”

“A huge help and very accommodating with her time. Madeleine was understanding, supportive and a great guide throughout.”

“Andrew has been incredibly helpful in providing the tools for my husband and I to work through some issues we have been experiencing. We would recommend Andrew to couples seeking the same support.”

“We went to the sessions as a couple and neither of us had any previous experience of counselling. Andrew was supportive and attentive; he encouraged us to talk but also listened and reacted to what we said. It was a comfortable space that allowed us to talk openly. In some ways, the fact that we are still together and in a much better place almost a year later shows that he helped us through our difficult time.”

“Janine is a fantastic couples therapist. My partner and I were struggling with managing conflict in our relationship and felt it best to seek some professional support. Janine gave us strategies which really helped and she always listened without judgement or placing blame on either of us. We continue to see Janine every so often to help us continue to strengthen our relationship or cope with any challenges we are facing. Both my partner and I highly recommend Janine and cannot thank her enough for her help.”

“Sian was very methodical and to the point. It was amazing what she achieved in such a short period of time. She was very friendly but also very firm. We can highly recommend her and we will use her again!”

“Claire was welcoming and friendly always making us feel comfortable throughout our sessions. Would throughly recommend her and will definitely use her again if needed.”

“It always felt like a safe and supportive environment with Jessica. She was always careful to balance exploration of any issue with the ability to challenge you, if needed, on your thinking. She was friendly, professional and I would highly recommend sessions with her. Thank you Jessica.”

“Jessica was very kind, insightful and understanding, and made it very easy to open up to her. She helped us start talking constructively about things that had got too difficult to broach.”

“Jessica was exactly what we needed at the right time. Our marriage was in a bad place, and she really guided us, in a neutral way, to see where we were disconnecting and how we could work together to save our relationship. Thanks to Jessica our marriage is better than it’s ever been - always very grateful to how she brought us back to each other.”

“Sian is an amazing counsellor. She listens well, allows both sides to communicate, is honest and is very good at analysing the underlying issues to get to the root cause of it, which is absolutely necessary in order to start addressing the real problem. I felt a safe space with her. Before the first session, things were hanging on its last hinge. By the end of the first session, things turned around. Communication was much improved as there was better understanding of each other. I would highly recommend her service and would also use her again. I only wish I had found her sooner!”

“I honestly thought we were probably past the point where counselling could help. We had been having the same arguments for years and neither of us felt listened to. Sian was brilliant at making sure we both had a chance to speak and helped us see how we were getting stuck in the same pattern. We understand and like each other so much more now!”

“Sian’s support has had a profound impact on my life. She helped me reflect honestly on every aspect of my life and understand how my actions and decisions had affected the people I love most. With her professional, compassionate and impartial guidance, she helped me and my family work through some incredibly difficult issues and, most importantly, helped us find a way forward together. Her ability to provide a safe and non judgemental space allowed me to be completely honest with myself and take responsibility for the things I needed to change. I am enormously grateful to Sian for her guidance, understanding and professionalism. Her help has made a genuine and lasting difference to both me and my family.”

“Sian helped me and my partner work through our constant arguments. She helped us clearly define which behaviours and issues were causing us to disagree. And then helped us find a resolution and understand each other's viewpoint. I can confirm and say confidently that Sian helped save our relationship. Thank you Sian.”

“Rose has been excellent. She is a great listener, stays calm and collected. Is great at clarifying the situation and is helping us work towards some much needed improvements in our shared communication. Very grateful we made this investment in our relationship. We continue to use Rose and recommend her.”

“We had 6 sessions after going through a very difficult patch in our marriage. I wasn't particularly keen on counselling if I'm honest but agreed to try it. I was surprised by how useful I found it. It wasn't about deciding who was right or wrong, which was probably what I was worried about. Our therapist Sian helped both of us look at what we were doing when things went wrong and how we could handle it differently. Would definitely recommend giving it a try if you're struggling.”

“Both my partner and I (who don't agree on much!) really liked Daniel's approach. Daniel is good at reading between the lines and bringing unsaid things out into the open. He helped us have much franker conversations than we ever managed on our own.”

“My wife and I had couples therapy with Denese over the course of 9 months. We appreciated Denese's mix of listening, interpretation, and guidance. It helped us see our problems more clearly and she gave helpful suggestions for us to try. I'm happy to say that we are now in a better place.”

“We were nervous about couples counselling and weren't sure how it would work online, but our Sian put us both at ease very quickly. It helped us actually talk to each other without everything turning into an argument. Really glad we did it.”

“Sian was a great help to us, she made me feel really at ease and able to open up, she listened and I felt she really took the time to understand me and our relationship, but also was able to offer constructive advice which I have been able to implement and has been really helpful. I wouldn’t hesitate to see her again for sessions in the future.”

“I value every session with Dan, because it always leaves me with a sense of clarity and the ensuing "lightness of being." I appreciate the very practical approach, the fact that he is frank, and will not always tell me what I want to hear, but rather what I need to hear.”

“She was engaged and I felt very held in our sessions”

“I would recommend Janine, she’s very patience and fair, I found her sessions extremely valuable for couples but also a solo counselling session I had myself”

“Claire has been an excellent therapist and guide to navigating our relationship”