Counselling for the Impact of Pornography on Relationships
Rebuild trust, communication and intimacy when porn has become a source of conflict, secrecy or hurt.
Rated 5.0 by 500+ couples
We specialise in the impact of pornography on relationships
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Have the honest conversations you've been avoiding
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Rebuild trust after secrecy or discovery
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Understand the underlying patterns for the person using porn
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Non-judgemental counsellors who work with this issue regularly
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Andrew Spencer
Andy is a highly experienced relationship counsellor based in Guildford. He works with both couples and individuals, offering a safe space to explore communication breakdowns, emotional distance, sexual problems and conflict. Drawing on Gestalt, Transactional Analysis and Person-Centred Therapy, Andy helps partners understand each other better, rebuild trust and develop healthier, more respectful ways of relating. Clients describe him as warm, grounded, and easy to talk to.
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Deborah Leaver
Deborah is a qualified and highly experienced Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist based at Relationship Counselling Walton-on-Thames. She specialises in helping couples improve communication, rebuild trust, and resolve conflict in a supportive, understanding environment. Using an integrative approach that blends evidence-based methods with warmth and empathy, Deborah helps partners explore how past experiences and communication styles influence their relationship today. Her sessions offer a safe space for both individuals to feel heard, respected, and understood - guiding you towards greater connection, emotional balance, and a more fulfilling relationship.
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Ellen Jameson
Ellen is a fully qualified and experienced Relationship Therapist based at Relationship Counselling Cobham. She works with both individuals and couples, providing a calm, compassionate space to explore communication issues, emotional disconnection, affairs, or other relationship challenges. Drawing on her background in Narrative and Relationship Therapy, Ellen helps couples gain a deeper understanding, rebuild trust and find clarity about the future of their relationship. Her flexible, collaborative style ensures that each session is tailored to your needs, empowering you to make meaningful, lasting changes and strengthen the connection you share with yourself and others.
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Jolanta Lovelock
Jolanta is a fully qualified Integrative Counsellor and BACP-registered therapist who specialises in relationship therapy. She supports couples with difficulties including recurring conflict, communication problems, loss of connection, infertility, illness, bereavement and other significant life changes. Drawing on approaches including Emotionally Focused Therapy, Attachment Therapy, Imago Relationship Therapy and Solution-Focused Therapy, Jolanta helps couples understand each other’s perspectives and the patterns affecting their relationship. She provides a warm, balanced and non-judgemental space, whether you want to strengthen your relationship or navigate separation more amicably. Jolanta offers therapy in English and Polish.
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Jessica Grante
Jessica is a qualified and highly experienced psychotherapeutic counsellor and couples therapist. She offers a calm, supportive, and non-judgemental space where you and your partner can talk openly and work through what feels difficult. Using an integrative approach, Jessica blends person-centred, psychodynamic, and transactional methods to help couples understand themselves and each other more deeply. Whether you are navigating conflict, rebuilding trust, or need clarity about the future of your relationship, she provides practical guidance, structured tools, and steady support so you can reconnect with confidence and respect.
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Michelle Fussell
Michelle is a qualified and highly experienced Relationship Therapist based at Relationship Counselling Surrey’s Guildford practice. She offers a calm, supportive space where couples can explore communication difficulties, rebuild trust, and find clarity about the future of their relationship. Combining psychodynamic, person-centred, and CBT-informed techniques Michelle takes an eclectic and creative approach tailored to each couple’s unique situation. Compassionate and down-to-earth, she helps partners express themselves openly, understand each other’s perspectives, and move towards a more connected, respectful, and fulfilling relationship. Michelle is a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).
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Claire Draper
Claire is a warm, compassionate and experienced online couples counsellor. With over 11 years’ experience, she provides a safe, calm space where partners can talk openly and feel equally heard. Claire supports couples to improve communication, rebuild emotional closeness, and work through challenges without judgement. Whether you feel stuck, resentful, or unsure what the future holds, Claire will help you gain clarity and move forward in a way that feels right for you both
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Katrina Voysey
Katrina is a fully qualified psychotherapist and couples counsellor based at Relationship Counselling Coulsdon, with over 30 years’ experience and BACP registration. She offers a warm, supportive space where couples can feel heard and work through challenges such as communication difficulties, trust issues, affairs, and growing apart. Katrina helps couples understand their relationship patterns, strengthen emotional connection, and develop healthier ways of communicating, whether they are looking to rebuild their relationship or separate with greater clarity and care. Katrina is a registered member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy)
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